What should I do?

papahats

Hi, as i type i am feeling a very strange type of anger i have never felt like this before, anyway i believe the reason i feel like this is as follows. A few weeks ago my friends and I were out on a session it was the usual craic until the end of the night, an argument broke out with my best friend an another friend so naturally enough i sided with my best mate only to suddenly find myself being dragged into and having the two of them shouting at me, anyhow i just walked away and went home. So next day i am thinking that it was not very fair the way i stuck up for my friend only for him to turn on me, so i decided i would not contact him first i would let him contact me, so a good few days passed and still nothing, in the meantime i have been talking to another friend who told me that he was out with him the next night and they had an argument and he left him same as i did and that he will not talk to him for a while because he is acting the dic*head, so he is over at my house bitchin about him etc etc all the time now, only the thing is i have seen them together and i know that they are excluding me from activities such as astro, bowling etc. So my question is what do i do wih these two faced people? sorry if this is a bit all over the place and too long I am just so angry and i feel betrayed

MIN2511

Arrange a meeting and confront them...

MIN2511

MIN2511 wrote: »

Arrange a meeting and confront them...

first thing i would do is not follow this advice.

meet up with friend number one and jus say it to him/her.

Aprilsunshine

get used to it. people are nasty - end of story.

make new friends...

Gyalist

What should I do?

Find a older mentor who can teach you to behave like a man instead of like a hormonal, teenaged girl.

girl2

I think the advice on here so far has been a bit harsh.

Just try and talk to them. From what I understand, one of them was your best friend up until this incident. Talk to him first. On his own. Try and get the situation resolved with him.....and hope for the best. Then try with the next one.

You probably are right to feel a little angry, but dont let it consume you. Your pissed off and hopefully if you get it resolved, the anger will pass.

MIN2511

Gyalist wrote: »

Find a older mentor who can teach you to behave like a man instead of like a hormonal, teenaged girl.

Thats a bit harsh.... This happens all the time, nothing new here... He just has to find a way to handle things

Aprilsunshine wrote: »

get used to it. people are nasty - end of story.

make new friends...

Make new friends?:rolleyes:
These are his friends, they fell out.. They should talk things through... How does making new friends solve this?

Deleted User wrote: »

meet up with friend number one and jus say it to him/her.

Arrange to meet up with both friends not either one...

I beleive all three mates hang out, it would be easier to address things together

mikemac

Let the best friend contact you
Don't make the first move

MIN2511

mikemac wrote: »

Let the best friend contact you
Don't make the first move

Who cares who contacts who first? The OP is hurt, the quicker he ends this and knows where he stands the better...


It's not marriage.... They are mates!

acid.rain

if you were the stronger of both, then you should sort it out with the first friend, then the other. keep your options open. they both seem immature to me; i'd move on