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Ex is too close

  • 11-02-2009 11:12pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok basically i am in an organisation that meets once a week my ex was involved in it 2 (thats how we met) when we broke up (he cheated on me after 2 years) he said he wouldn't be back to numerous members and myself tonight he reapppears after 2 months. I got really annoyed but didnt show it and just basically avoided him. How do i deal wit this i dont think i can face seeing him every week.


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  • #2
    skooterblue
    Closed Accounts Posts: 168 ✭✭skooterblue


    You can do nothing. You have no right to ask him to leave. Its a case of Put up or shut up. If you dont like it you can leave. If you belong to a massive organisation you transfer to a different branch or unit. I am sure they would welcome your experience. Apparts from that dont show you are hurting!!


  • #3
    traffic_cone
    Closed Accounts Posts: 50 ✭✭traffic_cone


    2 options:

    1) Grow up
    2) Stop going yourself and return in a month or two (after which time he may have stopped going)


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    op again forgot to mention tht he owes my mum €700 (for breaking something he had the loan of.) and hasnt been bothered to pay back and would not speak to me about it would not answer phone and refsed to talk to me about it on tuesday night. thanks for advice so far!


  • #5
    CDfm
    Closed Accounts Posts: 20,649 ✭✭✭✭CDfm


    Unregistered wrote: »
    op again forgot to mention tht he owes my mum €700 (for breaking something he had the loan of.) and hasnt been bothered to pay back and would not speak to me about it would not answer phone and refsed to talk to me about it on tuesday night. thanks for advice so far!

    what did he break?

    does your Mom want you to collect on it or has she written it off?

    Or is she dealing with it directly?


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