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He's just not that into me!

  • 11-02-2009 9:44pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Started seeing a new guy a few months ago and for a while everything was going so great!He was thoughtful always sending sweet texts and making such an effort. Now its all changed and i know that he's probably just gotten complacent but i'm confused as to what to do!

    Do i break up with a guy i like out of fear he just isn't that into me anymore or is it worth talking it out and seeing what happens?


Comments

  • #2
    Mr Benevolent
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,456 ✭✭✭✭Mr Benevolent


    Sometimes a person might think they're doing all the work in a relationship. Try contacting him, sending sweet text messages etc. My gf very rarely calls or texts me but we get on great regardless.


  • #3
    Princessa
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 581 ✭✭✭Princessa


    If ye are together a few months then maybe ye are just becoming more comfortable around eachother, talk to him about it, say you miss the sweet texts etc, you might be able to rekindle something! :D


  • #4
    Húrin
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3,045 ✭✭✭Húrin


    It's surely not the texts that matter so much as how he behaves in person, is it?

    The honeymoon period inevitably has a lot of texts cos people are too nervous to say in person what is easy to type. He's just become more relaxed, I expect. Nothing to do with him being less into you.

    PS. Don't take that new film seriously. It's just idiotic from what I've heard.


  • #5
    Liam Byrne
    Closed Accounts Posts: 18,163 ✭✭✭✭Liam Byrne


    While the initial "rush" would have you delighted that someone's interested, and you'd probably text or reply fairly quickly/frequently, that simple isn't sustainable; life's too busy to keep that up. So there is a natural drop; as long as it's not down to near zero, and he's still great in person, I'd say you're being paranoid.

    Some people live by text or phone; some (me included) go off someone if they get put out or panicky if there's no reply within the hour.


  • #6
    MIN2511
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,398 ✭✭✭MIN2511


    The film is not idiotic, to a certain degree it does make sense and you know it. Once you start making excuses for a guy then he's not into you.

    Why don't you meet up with him for food or drinks and then have a chat about it... Thats the only way you would find out if he's into you or not-good luck!


    Don't forget there are exceptions in every situation!


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