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Attractive girl/guy in a group. what do you do?

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  • 11-02-2009 7:53pm
    #1
    LD 50
    Registered Users Posts: 1,559 ✭✭✭


    I was out with a couple of friends, 2 guys and 2 girls + me, last weekend in TIME, and got talking to this girl while they were gone to the bar or something and I was minding their bags. No this is not a thread to see if she's here. Keep reading, there is a point to this. She walked off anyways and my friends came back.

    The next night I was talking to some friends and one of the girls mentions that if she saw a guy she liked the look of or w/e, but he was with girls, even though there may not have been anything going on between them, she wouldn't go over.
    I would have thought it would be different. i.e A girl mightn't go over to talk to a guy if it was an all guy group.
    Does this apply the same to guys? Would be more likely to go up and talk to a girl if she was in a group of guy and girls, or just girls?

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    would you chat up girls/guys if they're in a group 31 votes

    Yes
    0% 0 votes
    No
    67% 21 votes
    I'd wait till they were alone
    32% 10 votes
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    #2
    Diabhal Beag
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,238 ✭✭✭✭Diabhal Beag


    I always found women prefer to chat to a group of lads as they prefer the banter and flirting involved.


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    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    I wouldn't chat a guy up, I'd expect him to come over and chat me up.. although I would let him know I was interested in him.


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    girlbiker
    Closed Accounts Posts: 137 ✭✭girlbiker


    Discuss??

    I cant answer now, I've seized up, I feel like I'm doing the junior cert *Sweats profusely*


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    #5
    SoWatchaWant
    Registered Users Posts: 1,213 ✭✭✭SoWatchaWant


    As a guy, I generally choose to "chat up" girls I like that are in groups of girls.


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    Quazzie
    Registered Users Posts: 28,884 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    I usuallly wait till after the club is finished and she is outside alone.... Then I pounce!!


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    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    Quazzie2002 wrote: »
    I usuallly wait till after the club is finished and she is outside alone.... Then I pounce!!


    haha I think we've met.


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    dr.bollocko
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,943 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    Moved to the bull**** hypothetical questions forum.
    Wait.
    What do you mean AH is the bull**** hypothetical questions forum?!


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    #9
    OctavarIan
    Registered Users Posts: 2,736 ✭✭✭OctavarIan


    The right thing to do is go over and make friends with the group then hit on the chick.

    That said, I wouldn't. Far too much effort involved :pac:


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    Quazzie
    Registered Users Posts: 28,884 ✭✭✭✭Quazzie


    abi2007 wrote: »
    haha I think we've met.
    srsly asl?


    ktnxbai!


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    #11
    LD 50
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    girlbiker wrote: »
    Discuss??

    I cant answer now, I've seized up, I feel like I'm doing the junior cert *Sweats profusely*
    pfft. The JC was nothing.;):p


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    flyton5
    Registered Users Posts: 1,112 ✭✭✭flyton5


    I prefer to clam up and spend my night going to the bar at the same time as her just so I can stand behind her pressing my lad off her, even if it's not busy.

    I do it on packed buses as well. I like to think that secretly they enjoy it.


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    Genghiz Cohen
    Registered Users Posts: 7,182 ✭✭✭Genghiz Cohen


    flyton5 wrote: »
    I prefer to clam up and spend my night going to the bar at the same time as her just so I can stand behind her pressing my lad off her, even if it's not busy.

    I do it on packed buses as well. I like to think that secretly they enjoy it.

    σ_σ


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    shame1603
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭shame1603


    i dont seem to have any problem chatting to a girl for an entire night, i just can never seem to close the deal!!!! unless she jumps me then nothing is gonna happen! :(
    wish i knew why!


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    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    she's probably been waiting all night for you to make a move


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    shame1603
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭shame1603


    its that whole picking up on signals and body language that i seem to have a problem with. even if its plain as day i still cant see it, not for definite sure! (bad grammar i know)


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    Terry
    Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    abi2007 wrote: »
    I wouldn't chat a guy up, I'd expect him to come over and chat me up.. although I would let him know I was interested in him.
    How?
    If the answer is body language, then describe it.

    Quazzie2002 wrote: »
    I usuallly wait till after the club is finished and she is outside alone.... Then I pounce!!

    You would be surprised how many times I've seen that happen.


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    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    body language yes.. stare at him, smile and bat my eyelids.. he usually gets the hint


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    #19
    AlmightyCushion
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,060 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    If I see a girl I like I piss on her to mark my territory.


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    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    Classy


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    shame1603
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭shame1603


    abi2007 wrote: »
    Classy

    thats an understatment, its down right chivalrous!


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    dr.bollocko
    Moderators, Music Moderators Posts: 35,943 Mod ✭✭✭✭dr.bollocko


    abi2007 wrote: »
    Classy
    shame1603 wrote: »
    thats an understatment, its down right chivalrous!

    Stop the shameless attempt to be one of Almighty Cushion's peons.


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    Turd Ferguson
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭Turd Ferguson


    Most of my preferred females are too young to go to bars or clubs or even be outside after 6pm....but if I did see someone I liked I would usually try and strike a conversation. My main method is to stand next to them and loudly pronounce how big my penis is.


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    #24
    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    dr.bollocko wrote: »
    Stop the shameless attempt to be one of Almighty Cushion's peons.

    Ya lost me there..


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    shame1603
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5 ✭shame1603


    dr.bollocko wrote: »
    Stop the shameless attempt to be one of Almighty Cushion's peons.

    i really hope you were being sarcastic cos i know i was!


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    AlmightyCushion
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    Turd Ferguson wrote: »
    My main method is to stand next to them and loudly pronounce how big my penis is.

    The best way to pull is to keep talking about her. No matter what happens always bring the conversation back to her. A general catch all way to get the conversation back on her is to shout "Your tits ROCK! What the hell you feeding those things????"


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    #27
    Turd Ferguson
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 4,193 ✭✭✭Turd Ferguson


    AlmightyCushion wrote: »
    The best way to pull is to keep talking about her. No matter what happens always bring the conversation back to her. A general catch all way to get the conversation back on her is to shout "Your tits ROCK! What the hell you feeding those things????"

    I tried that once and it didnt work...in fairness I had just substituted 'my' for 'your' into my usual lines so I spent 15 minutes talking about how big her penis was. I shouldve put more thought into that one.


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    #28
    Terry
    Registered Users Posts: 26,061 ✭✭✭✭Terry


    abi2007 wrote: »
    body language yes.. stare at him, smile and bat my eyelids.. he usually gets the hint
    Oh I've been fooled by that one too many times.

    I see that happening, go over and say hello and then her and all her mates laugh at me and call me a patethic loser.

    I won't be fooled again.


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    #29
    AlmightyCushion
    Moderators, Education Moderators, Technology & Internet Moderators Posts: 35,060 Mod ✭✭✭✭AlmightyCushion


    Turd Ferguson wrote: »
    I tried that once and it didnt work...in fairness I had just substituted 'my' for 'your' into my usual lines so I spent 15 minutes talking about how big her penis was. I shouldve put more thought into that one.
    It may not have been your fault. Maybe her penis was really small and she was insecure about it. She may have thought you were mocking her.


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    #30
    abi2007
    Closed Accounts Posts: 726 ✭✭✭abi2007


    Ah I wouldn't be so cruel.. I'm really sweet.. really.


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    #31
    Serafina27
    Closed Accounts Posts: 36 ✭Serafina27


    Could approach a guy in a group EVER!!! Not even if I was full to the brim with dutch courage! Its a confidence thing!


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