met a guy recently on nite out and he has added me on bebo. dont know if hes shy or..

LegacyUser

Hi,
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I met a guy out one night recently and he added me on bebo. I flirted with him during the night and nothing really hapened. he sent me*a private message through bebo to ask me if ill be going out sometime soon.
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I dont get it, when i met him he was kind of giving me mixed signals and now he wants to see me again.. is he shy?
he seemed like a nice guy and his friends seemed nice too.
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All i want to know is does he like me as a friend or something more??
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thanks for your help!

LolaLuv

It's probably too early to know for sure if it's a friendly thing or what. Go out with him again and see what sort of vibes you get.

Craft25

He fancies you.. he was being ultra cautious in the pub so as not to mess up, trying not to go too fast, probably a bit shy

lolli

Op

To be honest I dont think a guy is going to go to the bother of tracking you down on bebo and sending you a private message asking you out unless he was interested. Your lucky he even remembered your name, most guys forget straight off :P I'd take it as a good sign but take it easy. Go out with him and just see how it goes.

omb0wyn5ehpij9

lolli wrote: »

Op

To be honest I dont think a guy is going to go to the bother of tracking you down on bebo and sending you a private message asking you out unless he was interested. Your lucky he even remembered your name, most guys forget straight off :P I'd take it as a good sign but take it easy. Go out with him and just see how it goes.

Totally agree with you on this. He just sounds shy

Nevyn

Send him a direct private message and ask him out for coffee.

omb0wyn5ehpij9

Thaedydal wrote: »

Send him a direct private message and ask him out for coffee.

Bingo!!! Definately the way to go, at least you will know either way after that

LegacyUser

im kinda shy too! (blushes) so i dunno if i can make the first move!

oh thanks for your help

LegacyUser

im just trying to figure it out.. if he does like me then why didnt he ask me for my number rather than finding me on bebo??

hmm maybe thats just him being shy.. afraid of rejection..etc?

Craft25

what do you mean first move, he looked you up first!! He definitely fancies you, go for it.. god knows why he didnt, shyness, maybe he didnt see the signals 'til after you left and his mates said "she's so into you".. does it matter??.. just go for it

dresden8

One step removed stuff is easier.

if you're not interested it doesn't happen while he's there psychologically speaking.

Give the guy a break and don't over analyse it. He wants to meet you. If you want to meet him, meet him.

See what happens then.

LegacyUser

OP I did the exact same thing before. I was the guy who was stupidly too shy to ask the girl out on the night so looked her up on bebo and sent a private message.

HE LIKES YOU he's just shy. Give him a chance, it worked for me

Terodil

Aye who cares, he found you, got in contact with you, why does it matter if he asked for your number or sent you a message on Bebo...

Just meet up, have fun and see where you two can go from there, and stop overanalysing stuff as that's just a killer