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No Sex

  • 08-02-2009 4:30pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi Guys,


    Help and advice needed please. I'm 27 and shes 32 - Going out with a girl for the last six years - relationship is strong we've been through a lot and are strong on all levels bar the love life. As with everything the beginning was great.


    As the relationship has matured lately the number of times we make love has hit rock bottom last year I can count on one hand how many times we have done it.


    I've tried lots of different approaches etc. The problem is I have a high sex drive and it is becoming a problem. I've tried to talk to her but she doesn't want to know and just brushes off the subject or else it goes into a row.

    Am I been unreasonable.

    I do as much as I can cook and clean etc - romantic dinners out or in home cooked meals - running out of ideas and honestly this is extremely frustrating.


Comments

  • #2
    fabgooner
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 55 ✭✭fabgooner


    most relationships go thru sexless periods. maybe she is stressed about sumtin. my advice is to spice it up. surprise her with rose petals on the bed;)


  • #3
    unreggd
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,835 ✭✭✭unreggd


    Talk to her

    Its crazy how many problems people can sort out by talking


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I am in the same boat - when i read this it seemed like i was after posting it myself. I've tried talking about it and to no avail - it wasnt a problem before in the relationship but now for me its a big problem!! Cant get around it to be honest to the point where i am thinking of ending a six year relationship because of it


  • #5
    kayos
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,494 ✭✭✭kayos


    Could we sticky some of the "No Sex" thread replies? This topic is becoming a daily thing.

    A relationship without sexual intimacy is just a friendship. If there is no sex in the relationship and a partner is not willing to listen and try and resolve it then you really need to think about the relationship.


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