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The ex and good friends....

  • 05-02-2009 7:50pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok here is the problem, my ex finished with me about 6 months ago, we where going out 5 years, i was soo gutted when it finished but hey these things happen. it killed me to lose her but if things arent meant to be, there not meant to be. still not over her but trying to not let it get me down to much. anyway the problem is, when we where going out we met a very good group of friends as a couple. what i mean is that they where not her friends or not my friends when we met them....these group of friends became very good friends of both of us. when we broke up it made things kinda awkward, which is sad for both of us to be honest. sometimes i would get a call from them to meet up, then sometimes i would hear they where out with my ex. this really hurts me because we all used to have such a good laugh together. i hate that now we have both lost out on this. i know my ex would be ok if we all went out again in the same group, thing is, i would find it so hard. i still care alot for her and to sit there drinking with her would hurt soo much but i hate missing out on those good times out with very good frends!

    just wondering has anyone else been in a similar situation, if so, what did you do?


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  • #2
    Kirnsy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 970 ✭✭✭Kirnsy


    if you cant handle being around the ex and if this means even in this group of friends , maybe its time to hang out with YOUR friends, the friends you had before the ex and the same friends that wont invite the ex along.

    im sure there'l come a time when you can handle being with ex and 'good friends' but let nature run its course.


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