Why does she behave this way??

bos8

Weird one here.... There is a girl i work with who's behaviour baffles me... We went out on a couple of dates got on very well, had a little kiss etc but it did'nt work out and we finished.. She gave me the whole i want us to be friends malarky and i accepted it and tried to do just that... however her mood and behaviour towards me became gradually more iiritable and irriational... Snapping at me, being moody to me etc and this girl is very bubbly and friendly with everyone else... she loves a laugh with all my other colleagues but will absolutely not enter into any banter that i initiate with colleagues.. Sits there stony faced... Whats the story with her???

Wagon

bos8 wrote: »

Whats the story with her???

She's just being a bitch. Feck her, you don't have to get along with all your collegues. Ignore her.

D

Sorry to be blunt but it sounds that she just doesn't like you. The whole "lets be friends" was probably her being polite, hoping that you would eventually go your separate ways, but maybe the fact that you are still around and trying to be friends with her is starting to grate on her.

Colonel_McCoy

Dont let it bother you....... she sounds irrational

MIN2511

Stay away from her, only communicate with her when you need to(for work purposes).

With the way she's acting i wouldn't be suprised if she goes to HR and claim you are harassing her

John Mason

She never expected you to accept the "lets be friends".

She was expecting you to chase her a bit more or look forelorn around her

you got on with your life and she is p.issed at you

just ignore her

StroppySu

Yep I agree, I think she expected you to sit around moping about where it all went wrong, or to chase her for a while. Since you didnt she's a little bit peeved I reckon! Girls :rolleyes:

Liam Byrne

StroppySu wrote: »

Yep I agree, I think she expected you to sit around moping about where it all went wrong, or to chase her for a while. Since you didnt she's a little bit peeved I reckon! Girls :rolleyes:

+1

Damned if you do, and verse-visa!!!

StroppySu just reminded me of a case with someone that I'd previously "tried my case" with and got the whole "ah, I dunno...." stuff; cue a few weekends where I completely respected that, being civil but chatty; then a house party where I got chatting to miss "no interest" - laughing and slagging and showing that there was no harm done and no issues.....

She ended up following me around and asking everyone about me all night..... :P

What's that country song by Holly Dunn ? "When I say no I mean maybe, or maybe I mean yes...."

davyjose

Yeah she's trying to play mind games, and because you aren't, she's losing.

Keep on having a laugh with your colleagues, be yourself, and forget her.