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Too Much Too Soon

  • 03-02-2009 10:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Went out on a date with a guy and had a nice evening.Since then, we have seen each other alot as we are involved in a project together along with lots of other people. This project has now and much as I enjoyed it, I'm glad it's over as everytime I turned around he was there hovering around me. A teen who was also involved asked if he was my boyfriend as he was always near me during it...

    Added to this, he has phoned me every day and has also been texting me. We are both in our 40's and have children who know each other and in the past couple of weeks the kids have had a sleepover at his (there were other kids there too). Prior to this although friends, our kids have never had a sleepover.

    He is a nice guy but tbh, all of this contact is freaking me out! We are due to go out again at the weekend but I am not really looking foward to it at all.And I think I'm getting to the point of being rude which is not my style. We had a get together at end of the above project and I think he felt we should sit together wheras I sat with other people as I definitely don't consider myself part of a 'couple'. I've also ignored a call from him this evening.

    Is it considered 'normal' to phone a person you've gone on one date with every day?! Or am I being a selfish so and so...?


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  • #2
    speaktofrank
    Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭speaktofrank


    No, not really. I assume that even though the date went well you just see him as a friend. Just tell him you are not interested in a relationship for whatever reason.
    Simple as that


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