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Work mate I like

  • 03-02-2009 10:00pm
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    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    how do i know if a guy likes me? he's new in work - really cute and really friendly. he is about 3 years younger than me. is there any signs you give girls than u fancy guys??? im not too sure about all this dating stuff and my last relationship was a long term one.


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 78,580 ✭✭✭✭Victor


    One hint that he likes you is that he pays more attention to you than other people.

    Invite him for a sandwich on payday / Friday. You can get him by himself to chat to without anybody assuming to much. Then you can suss him out.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,398 ✭✭✭MIN2511


    Hmm, sorry but my advice is to play is safe until you are very sure he likes you.
    1. Get to know him on a new colleague basis(He's new, you are not. Help him settle in, ask questions etc)
    2. Pay day suggest the group go for drinks, insist it's his first drinks and its always good to get to know the crowd.
    3. If at the drinks he flirts with you then you can make a move

    But until then please stay away, been burnt a twice(one had a gf and the other is too old for me)
    No point ****ting on your own doorstep, it's not easy working together after the "rejection"

    My 2c


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 26,280 ✭✭✭✭Eric Cartman


    how often do you interact with him at work, do you do the same kind of job (like is there some way you could talk to him more , then move on to sandwich/ after work drinks)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 751 ✭✭✭Colonel_McCoy


    Arrange a work night out and see how you get on......at leats then it wont seem like a date.


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,787 ✭✭✭prospect


    Post a picture of yourself, we will tell you if he fancies you or not.


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    prospect wrote: »
    Post a picture of yourself, we will tell you if he fancies you or not.
    good idea, you can also measure his level of interest on a direct comparison to your bra size!


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,787 ✭✭✭prospect


    steve06 wrote: »
    good idea, you can also measure his level of interest on a direct comparison to your bra size!

    Don't forget though, his level of interest is inversely proportional to your arse size.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 43,045 ✭✭✭✭Nevyn


    prospect and steve06
    this is a serious forum serious on topic and helpful replies only.
    Unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
    Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
    Have a nice day.
    Thaedydal


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 34,809 ✭✭✭✭smash


    Thaedydal wrote: »
    prospect and steve06
    this is a serious forum serious on topic and helpful replies only.
    Unhelpful and off-topic posting will get you banned from this forum.
    Do take time to read the charter which contains the rules and abide by them.
    Have a nice day.
    Thaedydal
    :( are you jealous that we're not looking for pics of you? you can show us if you want like ;)


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,328 ✭✭✭gamblitis


    Victor wrote: »
    One hint that he likes you is that he pays more attention to you than other people.

    This is quite true. Drinks on payday is a good suggestion. Give him some settling in time.And get to know him and background info that may be helpful for future reference.


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  • Moderators, Social & Fun Moderators Posts: 42,362 Mod ✭✭✭✭Beruthiel


    steve06 wrote: »
    :( are you jealous that we're not looking for pics of you? you can show us if you want like ;)

    Take a week off.
    B


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