Getting serious

LegacyUser

i have met a lovely woman. she is very attractive and very interesting. i have been a bit of a lad over the years and basically would have had a lot of relationships and sex . she is 39 and basically and has only ever slept with one guy despite having gone out with lots. anyway on our 2nd date we both had oral. it was great and i think we will have full sex very soon,
ok then so what is the problem. well i am feeling guilty. she is great but possibly has fallen for me too quickly. if i have sex with her and we finish after a few months i think she might be very upset. previous gfs had lots of experience so was not an issue. not sure if people will understand what i mean but could do with some advice. shouls i go with the flow or hold off

biko

I suggest you say that you want to take things slow to let feelings develop properly.
Btw, just because she only had sex with one other guy does not mean she'll be destroyed if you two go separate ways. She might be as horny as you are.
Just not lead her on with any promises or "holidays next year".

petethebrick

Come on now - you're both adults and should be enjoying healthy sex if you've been dating a while. As long as you are honest with her and don't make false promises to her you've nothing to feel guilty about. And let's face it - if she's only slept with one person at the age of 39 she's probably in dire need of a bit don't u think. Good luck

LegacyUser

we have only been going out 2 weeks. i told her i like women who wear stockings and she got some. just a bit worried that having been so choosy she is now going for it hell for leather