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  • 02-02-2009 4:06pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Right opinions would be appreciated please. met a guy nearly 3 years now.. he cant comit to anythin. ... whats his favourite food, times.. it took him a year to sign his work contract cuz he felt... TRAPPED... so u can see where this is going.. RELATIONSHIPS.. He cant commit. I trust him that he will be faithfull. We had a chat that did I mind he was like that.. THe honest ans is I like him for who he is. BUT.. i didnt say. YES it freaks me out that after almost 3 years. I have never introduced him to my fam, nor he has told me he loves me.. (sober) he says he feels tied in when he does this. We spend every weeeknd at my place .. meet up week days ect.. NOW.. today i found his pic on some web site (not dating) listed single (but then again i am too not for any misleading puropses) and he was flirting with women..Oh ur so cute ect. I cant see most cuz they are set to private (i know a bitmuch but i couldnt help it.. Now i dnt know what to do.. part of me enjoys things the way they are.. no pressure ect.. but a big part is now thinkin. is he lying to me about stuff. is he not being as honest as i thought................


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  • #2
    gerTheGreat
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 871 ✭✭✭gerTheGreat


    First off, stop bebo stalking people. It's weird.

    Secondly, dump him. He'll never commit. He sounds like he's keeping his options open. He clearly doesn't love you and you shouldn't settle for that.

    Ger


  • #3
    AARRRGH
    Closed Accounts Posts: 12,382 ✭✭✭✭AARRRGH


    Stop seeing his actions as the problem, and start thinking what the hell is wrong with you. Why the f*ck would you pick a partner who cant commit to you, can't say he loves you, etc.? Do you have really low self esteem, or do you just like picking sh*t men?

    Start respecting yourself and dump this loser.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    thanks for that .. its prob what i need to here.. I sucks cuz i know that he loves me in a way... but just not enough to say.. i really like this girl.. i want her to be special to me... god.. i cant imagine NOT havin him around me.. how do i confront this and come out it on the positive...


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