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  • 31-01-2009 1:38am
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    I've been seeing this girl very casually for the last few weeks nothing serious just the odd meet up and txts and i'm hoping it will naturally progress from there into something more serious.

    Now the problem, as its approaching valentines day, what would be the appropriate thing to do. She won't be around that night as were both students and i dont want to come on too strong incase she only see's our relationship as a bit of a fling. Would a happy valentines txt be the way to go


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  • #2
    MagicMarker
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    Don't ''hope'' for anything, you get by doing, not hoping.

    Next time you're out ask her what the story is.


  • #3
    ForTheLoveOf_Fi
    Closed Accounts Posts: 40 ✭ForTheLoveOf_Fi


    oh texting. its such a cop out. you should meet up in person around the date, when ever you both free and give her something like choclates or flowers.

    texts dont mean alot, i txt mr best friends happy valentines:D


  • #4
    Qprmeath
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 983 ✭✭✭Qprmeath


    I presume you like her and want things to progress. So my advice would be do something small but meaningful. If yu dont want to do flowers chocolate romance kind of stuff perhaps a teddy bear or similar jokey present that doesnt have a love heart on it.


  • #5
    TheZohanS
    Closed Accounts Posts: 11,582 ✭✭✭✭TheZohanS


    Can't see anything wrong in sending a Valentines text.

    Try and keep it lighthearted and/or in keeping with the tone of your relationship with her.

    Might be an idea to send it to her in the morning too; so she doesn't think you're sending it after a few drinkies.


  • #6
    Mimikyu
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 18,963 ✭✭✭✭Mimikyu


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  • #7
    jessbeth
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 273 ✭✭jessbeth


    I would go with a single red rose. That's sweet and not over the top. A nice text is ok but if you really like the girl get her a little something. A rose is nice, it says I like you but it's not over the top I think. There's no harm in admitting to liking someone. If she didn't like you back she wouldn't be bothered meeting up with you in the first place.


  • #8
    Salome
    Closed Accounts Posts: 570 ✭✭✭Salome


    I think a single red rose would be sweet and not as scary as a dozen roses with an I LOVE YOU and a OTT cuddly toy!

    Keep it nice and casual, mark the occasion with a rose, that won't scare the bejesus out of her.

    And I'm with MM - if you like her and want to make it more serious, tell her - she's not a mindreader!


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