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lesbian in love with a fella

  • 22-01-2009 05:41PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,005 ✭✭✭✭


    weird heading for a weird situation. I'm bi but lean more towards women to the extent most people saw me as a lesbian. anyone else ever been in such a situation? I'm just so confused ....


Comments

  • #2
    hot2def
    Closed Accounts Posts: 794 ✭✭✭hot2def


    I'd have thought by most definitions - you are not a lesbian. So loosen up and go with it.


  • #3
    Untense
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 176 ✭✭Untense


    hot2def wrote: »
    I'd have thought by most definitions - you are not a lesbian. So loosen up and go with it.


    I'll second that. Go with the flow, and enjoy it! :)


  • #4
    anotherlostie
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,722 ✭✭✭anotherlostie


    Unregistered wrote: »
    weird heading for a weird situation. I'm bi but lean more towards women to the extent most people saw me as a lesbian. anyone else ever been in such a situation? I'm just so confused ....
    You've even identified as bi yourself, so I don't see why you are so confused. Sexuality is fluid for some people, so why not you?


  • #5
    Dark_lord_ire
    Closed Accounts Posts: 124 ✭✭Dark_lord_ire


    hot2def wrote: »
    I'd have thought by most definitions - you are not a lesbian. So loosen up and go with it.

    hehe nice one


  • #6
    cotwold
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 950 ✭✭✭cotwold


    I think you should follow your instinct and not worry too much about labels.


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  • #7
    shoegirl
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,093 ✭✭✭shoegirl


    I've had a few friends over the years who lived almost entirely lesbian lifestyles for some time in their lives and then met a guy. Two are married now and very happy (one for about 15 years) and the other is getting married in a few months time.

    Nothing wrong with it, anybody who says there is needs a good hard smack.


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