Lack of understanding... relationships part 1231235

LegacyUser

At what point do you start having doubts about he woman you hope to spend your life with, to marry, and go on to have kids with.

Love her with all my heart and more than I have ever though I could feel, but am frustrated. No dealbreakers in the usual sense of relationships, but differences of opinion, on what is important, on how we should relate to each other. I’m said to expect too much, clingy, romantic - she’s the opposite, coldly rational. Communication seems to result in me being told to deal with it (partly of the coldly rational part), and not even considering that, though I may have my issues, some of my behaviour is also the result of hers… there’s this vicious cycle.

I don’t have any doubts about her love for me, her belief in us, our closeness, the trust between us, but I am spitting frustration. I’ve been around the relationship track just enough to see this is truly something special, and I’ve never felt so loved or felt so much love, but small but serious differences leave me in wishing I could trade the tiniest piece of that love for the tiniest bit more mutual understanding or.

Just lost. Not a constant feeling, but it keeps coming back, and each time it does, it seems do so with more strength…

shivkk06

im my experience and opinion, if u are having doubts of any sort you need to listen to urself and adress them with ur partner to try get rid of all doubt. If this doesnt work r he/she not willing to help fix it, its time to move on.

good luck