Where is this relationship going?

LegacyUser

I don't know what to do, or even think.
I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he seems to have lost all his ambition in life, which is a turn off.
He doesn't smoke weed on the regular if anyone was going to ask that, he just is lazy.
He does nothing romantic anymore, and I have tried to get him out and to do activities together and all that but he doesn't seem to care.

But when it comes to me it's a different issue, he's mad about me. Or so I believe. In certain ways, I will never find another man like him that understands me the way he does.
He knows me better than i know myself, and I do care for him and love him.
But I don't know if this ''love'' is just me being used to being in love, or if i still lust for him.
I don't know. Has this ever happened to anyone? if so what did you do?

Thanks.

LegacyUser

He's probably taking you for granted.
Time to give him a kick up the ass

He could be depressed and having difficulty organising his thoughts in order to coherently explain them to you. Or it could be some other condition.

Sit him down and talk to him. Let him know you want to know what's going on in his head. Just knowing there's someone who actively wants to help can work wonders.

dyl10

Unregistered wrote: »

He's probably taking you for granted.
Time to give him a kick up the ass

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