Is she just not interested??

LegacyUser

Hi, I was talking to a woman for a few weeks prior to the christmas break and we were getting along great. She appeared to be interested i mye and my conversations and always had a huge smile and hello everytime we bumped into each other. So i finally suggested that we meet and she was delighted, as was I. I gave her my number and she said seh'd contact me after the christmas. But on the 11th Jan she still hasn't. Do ye think she has met someone else or was jusy playing me for a fool and getting a laugh out of it. I done get it??

LegacyUser

Why did you not get her number also? If she was interested then she would have no problem giving you her number. Did you try or did she pass it off by saying that she would contact you? Otherwise give it another week then forget about it...

LolaLuv

There are a million reasons why she might not have called and only one person who can tell you the answer.

MagicMarker

She may have lost your number or got trapped in a mine of some sort.

No harm in sending a quick text asking how she is/did she have a good new year etc.

Rich1691

MagicMarker wrote: »

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No harm in sending a quick text asking how she is/did she have a good new year etc.

+1, Just send her a text asking how was her christmas and new year!

LegacyUser

Its baffling, i didnt get her number either, messed up that bit. DOH

LegacyUser

Do ye think she has met someone else or was jusy playing me for a fool and getting a laugh out of it. I done get it??

Do you actually believe she would be sadistic enough to feign interest 'for a laugh' ? Seriously, if you want to know why she didn't text, ask her.

Instead you're sitting back and allowing your mind to make up stories, demonising someone you claim to be interested in.

mutualismo

If you didn't get her number, then you can forget about it. Women don't call.

LegacyUser

I may live to regret not getting her number, why dont women call BTW?? surely they make the first move sometimes

LegacyUser

I didn't even try to get her number, i was too nervous

LegacyUser

How do you know her? A work colleague, friend of a friend etc? Have you not seen her since? Next time you do just mention in passing, maybe a litlle cheekily... Im still waiting on that call!

m83

mutualismo wrote: »

If you didn't get her number, then you can forget about it. Women don't call.

Most of them won't... the one i'm seeing now did the chasing for me. Nice for a change!

LegacyUser

I probably wont bump into her again, it was through work, had a four week contract and probable wont be back with that company this year, do ye think ive missed the boat and should forget about it and move on?

LegacyUser

They will text but never call IME. Men have the balls, or so I'm told but reading this forum I sometimes wonder!

St Bill

She might have lost your number or as MagicMarker said, she might be stuck down a mine :pac: hence bad coverage. Don't assume she didn't call you because she wanted to mess with your head. You're not going down a good path if you think that women have the time and/or inclination to construct and orchestrate elaborate mindgames.
And on the off chance that she is playing games, it's your decision whether or not you want to take part in the game.

Miss Fluff

How do you know her? Is it through friends? She may be on Facebook or one of the other sites, drop her an email. She could have lost her phone or anything or is maybe too nervous to call, don't give up on it just yet.

cailinban

Hello, I would say she probably has something on in her life. There could be a sick relative or she could just be busy with other things. From experience, I have done the chasing, and the person I'm with now I asked for his number, got it on a ripped up little piece of notepaper and a few days later I made the first call. In other words, she's either busy, has lost it, or just doesn't remember taking it (it happens) or maybe she doesn't remember your name (if she didn't save it but pressed the call button to save it in call logging history instead, that could be another reason why she hasn't called).

I'm sure there are plenty of other girls who would be just as happy to get your attention, keep your eyes open, you might see her again too!

Good luck!

LegacyUser

Hi, OMG she actually texted a couple of days ago, i cant believe it, thing is though shes seems pretty stand offish on the texts, maybe shes shy but i dont think she is really, i seem to be the only one instigating the first text and she wont reply to a text if there isn't a question put to her, we arranged to meet but she put it off at last minute saying she was busy, anybody know whats going on? its recking my head

Harris

I know it sounds harsh but maybe she's just not that into you. I would not waste any more time on her.

LegacyUser

yeah i was starting to get that feeling alright, should i just stop worrying about it and move on maybe delete her number

MagicMarker

Unregistered wrote: »

Hi, OMG she actually texted a couple of days ago, i cant believe it, thing is though shes seems pretty stand offish on the texts, maybe shes shy but i dont think she is really, i seem to be the only one instigating the first text and she wont reply to a text if there isn't a question put to her, we arranged to meet but she put it off at last minute saying she was busy, anybody know whats going on? its recking my head

She's not into you, and if she is she's playing games.

Delete her number and forget about her, be prepared to get a random text off her again (like she did a few days ago). Ignore it, you're her ego boost and nothing more.

dvpower

Harris wrote: »

I know it sounds harsh but maybe she's just not that into you. I would not waste any more time on her.

I agree. I suspect the OP knew this from the start.

LegacyUser

MagicMarker wrote: »

She's not into you, and if she is she's playing games.

Delete her number and forget about her, be prepared to get a random text off her again (like she did a few days ago). Ignore it, you're her ego boost and nothing more.

thatns for youe advice magicmaker, i think you're right you know, why would she get a boost from that though, its hard to understand, do girls or fells use people as an ego boost alot?