How much is too much?

LegacyUser · 08-01-2009 11:14pm #1

Hi,

I recently met & started seeing someone new. My problem is that I seam to want to contact / see him a lot more than he does. I'm wondering how much contact is too much or even normal? I know this depends on the two people involved but is one night at the weekend really enough without even a phone call in between? It just doesn't feel like a relationship when it's that little...

Thanks

Miss Fluff · 09-01-2009 12:01am

What do you do when you hook up? Have you had sex yet?

LegacyUser · 09-01-2009 12:20am

No, it's not about sex... it just doesn't seam to be going anywhere and it won't sex wise either while I feel like this.

m83 · 09-01-2009 12:26am

If you're just having sex once a week and little communication in between then he's possibly just using you.

Das Kitty · 09-01-2009 8:29am

You just started going out and he only wants to talk to you or see you once a week?

I find that a little strange to be honest.

pseudonym1 · 09-01-2009 8:36am

Reverse the roles - make plans with your hair or your freinds and be a little less available to meet up when suits him! A casual "oh I can't this weekend/night have plans made with bla bla bla ought to work- if not to the kerb!!

Craft25 · 09-01-2009 8:45am

I would be more excited if i was seeing someone new who i liked.. at a minimum i'd be texting to say i cant wait/looking forward to see her.. unless he's a super nervous type?

How much is too much?

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