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How much is too much?

  • 08-01-2009 11:14PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I recently met & started seeing someone new. My problem is that I seam to want to contact / see him a lot more than he does. I'm wondering how much contact is too much or even normal? I know this depends on the two people involved but is one night at the weekend really enough without even a phone call in between? It just doesn't feel like a relationship when it's that little...

    Thanks


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  • #2
    Miss Fluff
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,673 ✭✭✭Miss Fluff


    What do you do when you hook up? Have you had sex yet?


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    No, it's not about sex... it just doesn't seam to be going anywhere and it won't sex wise either while I feel like this.


  • #4
    m83
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭m83


    If you're just having sex once a week and little communication in between then he's possibly just using you.


  • #5
    Das Kitty
    Moderators, Arts Moderators Posts: 17,231 Mod ✭✭✭✭Das Kitty


    You just started going out and he only wants to talk to you or see you once a week?

    I find that a little strange to be honest.


  • #6
    pseudonym1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,092 ✭✭✭pseudonym1


    Reverse the roles - make plans with your hair or your freinds and be a little less available to meet up when suits him! A casual "oh I can't this weekend/night have plans made with bla bla bla ought to work- if not to the kerb!!


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  • #7
    Craft25
    Closed Accounts Posts: 470 ✭✭Craft25


    I would be more excited if i was seeing someone new who i liked.. at a minimum i'd be texting to say i cant wait/looking forward to see her.. unless he's a super nervous type?


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