Just wondering...

LegacyUser

hi,

just something on my mind the last while. i get the whole one night thing [not even sleeping together but the kissing one night things etc],
i am just wondering about the day after...is there anyway to know if the guy is into you - is it if they dont do a runner the next morning? was with a fella recently [who i know and am friendlyish with]and the next day we spent the whole day together, kissing, cuddling and all that stuff and then nothing happening from it...is that the guy just being polite? or possibly that they do like you but wont say it?

just looking for some opinions more than anything
thnx

MagicMarker

*sigh*

Have you asked him if he's interested in more?
Did you say you wanted to meet up again some time?

How is it a person can spend an intimate night with another person doing whatever, but when the sun rises they are incapable of the most basic communication?

I don't think I'll ever understand it tbh.

Call him tomorrow and ask him if he wants to go on a date with you. It really is that simple. (don't sleep with him or bring him home after the date)

m83

I've had one night stands, bolted in the morning and left it at that. I've also had some where we spent the whole next day together and ended up forming a relationship. But i've also had some where we spent the day together and then nothing.

Personally, I can have a great time with someone but then I need to go be by myself for a while to see how I really feel. There's no hard and fast rules. If you hear from this guy again then great, because you seem to dig him but if not, don't worry about it and just move on

LegacyUser

i dont know really. its hard to explain as we are friends at the same time. i think his reading too much into the whole thing caused him to back off. i dont want to marry the lad!kinda touched on the subject when chatting some day but hasnt really been mentioned since.

i guess i do dig him but dont want anything to come between our friendship either....i just hate that there could be a chance that there is something there and we are both just letting it pass

with the comment about the date and the sleeping stuff Magic Maker

Curvy Vixen

No is the short easy answer to your question.

I have been positive that there will be further contact and not heard a thing and sure I'd never see the guy again and he has been texting/calling a couple of hours after leaving him....

As MM says......call him/talk to him/tell him you'd like to see him again...it's not hard....

pseudonym1

I dont mean to be cruel but if he was really into you he more than likely would have been in touch. Unless he is playing it cool.. a million what ifs but fact remains.

Talliesin

Is there a way to magically know what is going on in your mind that the rest of us benefit from?

No? What are you, some sort of human being? Some sort of actual real person who isn't just a cartoon character?

My goodness! Do you think perhaps the same might be true of other people?

Begads! You'll have to try talking to them and engaging in a degree of social interaction with them. Whodathunkit?