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Dont know what to do!

  • 02-01-2009 8:31pm
    #1
    currythis
    Closed Accounts Posts: 266 ✭✭


    I've had feelings for a girl who hangs round in our group for a while now but for the last few days I cant stop thinking about her at all.Situation is complicated in the extreme though as she is one of my best friends exe's and I know he still has feelings for her though he'll never admit it,and another one of my friends has been madly in love with her for about 2 years but she's not into him in that way.

    She's also scored basically every guy in my group of friends and they're forever slagging her behind her back which is just not on in my opinion,and it's funny they weren't slagging her when they wanted something off her.I know this doesn't exactly paint her in a flattering light but she really is a nice girl,shes pretty,smart,funny and kind.

    We text each other a lot and we always end up hanging round with each other whenever we go out in a group.I dont know what to do,should I tell her how I feel or am I best off just being friends with her?.I'm sick of seeing her being hurt by the complete pricks she's seems to always go for,and I dont think I could stand to see her score another random guy on a night out either.

    Anybody have any advice on what I should do?


Comments

  • #2
    m83
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,021 ✭✭✭m83


    You're young right, like 18? Say you do get with her, your friends will most likely resent you, their slagging of her will make you resent them and it probably won't even last because you've painted her to be the local bike. If it were me, I'd enjoy the friendship, maybe score with her the odd time but I'd have no intention of saddling up together.


  • #3
    banshee_bones
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,160 ✭✭✭✭banshee_bones


    be very careful. if this girl is in your group and you get with her and it goes well and then it eventually doesnt work out for whatever reason, its going to be very hard to hang around with your mutual friends,there will be akwardness and the like. So decide now if you want to keep her as a friend or if you want more and you can handle the consequences if it doesnt work out so well.

    Whatever you decide I wish you the very best of luck i know it isnt easy!


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