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Thinking way too much about sex...

  • 02-01-2009 4:43pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    Been reading threads here for a while, but never though I would be have to post, but I do.
    I'm going to cut to the chase and say my problem. I am craving sex to the point where it is getting in the way of my job and my life in general. I'm thinking about it way too much and it's really starting to get to me. I'm 31.

    I had to admit recently that this isn't just a new thing either. Whenever I am not in a relationship I miss sex hugely and that leads me to seeing someone who I don't particularly want to be in a relationship with. That's happend a few times and obviously, it's not right and not fair on them.

    Other times, I have been in a relationship in which I have genuinely been in love and because there is regular sex, there are no problems in that regard. I don't know what to do now and I guess I'd like some advice. The one way to solve this is to get back into a relationship, bt I am not going to start seeing someone just because I need regular sex!! I just don't see a way out of this and that's why I am posting here. Are there counsellors out there for this but that's what I'm seriously thinking now...


Comments

  • #2
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Hi OP,

    Have to say what you descibe is not unusual by any means. If you have a fairly high sex drive you will feel this way. Is it cos of your age you feel worried by it? My sex drive is way higher than in my twenties and I have met plenty of males and females who are the same.

    If it is worrying you then maybe you should talk to a counsellor to help ease your concern.

    Just hope it isn't because you feel guilty cos a sex drive is nothing to be ashamed of IMO.


  • #3
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    I don't know that I fully agree #2. Its natural to have the urge but when you're no longer in control of where that takes you, you've got a problem.


  • #4
    MagicMarker
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    How about a friend with benefits?


  • #5
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Yea what magic marker said...as long as both people are in agreement and carry condoms.


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