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Porn Addicted

  • 28-12-2008 8:18pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Any other women addicted to porn?feel like there is something wrong with me is there?have a very high sex drive just seems constantly on my mind...


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  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,813 ✭✭✭themadchef


    Nothing wrong with a woman liking porn or having a high sex drive.

    When you say you're addicted to it though, exactly what do you mean? Is it affecting your personal life, sex life? Do you feel bad about it. What defines addiction?


  • Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 883 ✭✭✭moe_sizlak


    Any other women addicted to porn?feel like there is something wrong with me is there?have a very high sex drive just seems constantly on my mind...

    who is your favourite porn star


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 63 ✭✭Homer Sexual


    Nothing wrong with it. Most guys look at lots porn. I like to crack one off before bed.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 22,479 ✭✭✭✭philologos


    Any other women addicted to porn?feel like there is something wrong with me is there?have a very high sex drive just seems constantly on my mind...

    If you're open minded and if you think that you have a problem, there is a ministry by the name of XXXChurch, if you are willing to seek answers and assistance with a porn addiction just google it since apparently I'm not allowed to give the link to a helpful website (my comment has been edited by moderators).


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    moe_sizlak

    Helpful comments only please or you will face a ban.

    dudara


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks everyone! I do see it as a problem purely because I really believe these girls are exploited I don`t think this is what they really want to do do you?


  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    I wouldn't classify myself as an addict but I watch it fairly regularly. I have a sex drive that is quite high but relationships don't appeal to me, so I watch porn. I've always like visual images, I'm an artist, after all. I drew pictures of people having sex when I was as young as 12 and I fantasized about sex as soon as I knew what it was. Don't feel bad about porn, but yeah, I agree, the KIND of porn that's out there sucks, literally. It's all male centric and gross, I have to close my eyes sometimes to avoid looking at the turn off (male power and abuse) and search out the "good stuff' ... which is usually made by couples, you can see the connection and chemistry between them even when it's kinky.
    If more women demand better porn maybe this would change ... support women-made porn. Don't feel guilty, men aren't the only ones who like to see penetration. Also ... gay male porn is a better option if you get sick of seeing women degraded.


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 427 ✭✭sneakerfreak


    Having Spent over half my life in the Sex Industry I might be able to help with this a little.

    I have sold a lot of porn,Ive been to porn shoots,erotic rade fairs,business meetings,castings for films,I have even bought the licenses for some movies and distributed them myself.I have been to many places in Europe and further afield to the States and also Russia working in this business.

    During all this time I only once saw girls who wasnt happy to take part in porn.Most of the time they see it as a good money maker for a few years and a highly enjoyable lifestyle to boot.The girls in the States recieve huge money for their work (the guys can get as little as 10% of what the girl gets for each shoot) and can retire early and rely on investments they have made with their cash or start their own business.

    In some areas in Eastern Europe and the Russian Federation the life of a porn actor,escort or dancing girl is seen as a viable career move and is not frowned upon in general,it also provides a good wage (in most cases).

    Western Europe has more people taking part in movies as a hobby or for fun and many people do them for free (especially in scat movies believe it or not,these are actually the only places where scat enthusiasts can meet like minded people).

    Of course its not all sparkle and glitz,some women do it out of desperation but that never ever happens with the huge majority of production companies and as for being forced into it that never happens with them.

    The kind of movies where a girl has been talked into it by an over zealous boyfriend or physically forced to take part can be spotted miles away and are avoided by pretty much everyone I know in this business.They appear now and again and more often find their way directly to the anonymous internet rather than being released on DVD to stores.

    You will get staged 'rape' and 'forced' sex movies,these are staged and badly acted,you would never mistake it for the real thing.Incidentally I found that many women liked these movies and that violent sex seems to be a recurring fantasy with many women (of course not all fantasies should be played out for real).

    Porn is a product made by consenting adults for the viewing pleasure of consenting adults,anything other than this is quite wrong.

    So please enjoy your porn and worry not for it is quite safe to say that all involved in your film were there by their own free will and were very handsomely paid.

    Oh and one last thing,my girlfriend watches way more porn than me and Im totally fine with it and Im sure most men would be too!


  • Closed Accounts Posts: 427 ✭✭sneakerfreak


    Oh and yes last poster the amateur stuff is best,generic US porn with the "Whos your Daddy?" and slapping and verbal abuse carry on really sucks.


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