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Does she like me?

  • 15-12-2008 9:21pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Please tell me either way here.

    I met a girl a month ago in a pub. I liked her and she seemed to like me so I texted her the next day asking if she wanted to go out for a drink sometime. She said she had been asked out that day so she declined. I continued to chat with her for a while after, texting every coule of days usually me initiating. She has told me she has a boyfriend while she was chatting, only for a few weeks though. Anyway, last week I asked her out and she seemed genuinely happy to be asked out but declined due to lack of funds.She then proceeded to ask me out this weekend.

    Whats the deal here? Does she like me or is it a friends only affair?


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  • #2
    Stheno
    Moderators, Business & Finance Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 51,690 Mod ✭✭✭✭Stheno


    Does she still have a boyfriend?


  • #3
    AnonoBoy
    Closed Accounts Posts: 22,559 ✭✭✭✭AnonoBoy


    badatthisstuff wrote: »
    Whats the deal here? Does she like me or is it a friends only affair?

    If she still has a boyfriend then it's a friends only deal. If she's single again then it's a date.


  • #4
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Alright then, What should I do then? I mean if its a friends only thing then it would be a little weird just us too. How should ask her what the deal is?


  • #5
    Four-Too
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 223 ✭✭Four-Too


    If it's just the 2 of yous, then get chatting to her! Consider yourself to have every opportunity, boyfriend or no.
    Spit sum game at the bitch! :D


  • #6
    Terodil
    Closed Accounts Posts: 809 ✭✭✭Terodil


    Four-Too wrote: »
    If it's just the 2 of yous, then get chatting to her! Consider yourself to have every opportunity, boyfriend or no.
    Spit sum game at the bitch! :D
    I agree. There's nothing wrong with 2 friends doing stuff together, and maybe, just maybe, you're lucky enough to see this evolve. Since she has a bf already though take care that you don't get too pushy. Give her a good chance to get to know you, but don't take any steps (i.e. kissing+) while she's still in a relationship. She needs to take that step out first, if she cares about you. Otherwise you may just end up in a number of nasty situations.


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  • #7
    ~nop~
    Closed Accounts Posts: 245 ✭✭~nop~


    Ask her when she's out, "so, you still with the boyfriend then?", and if she's not, make a move. Sounds like she likes you.


  • #8
    MagicMarker
    Banned (with Prison Access) Posts: 32,865 ✭✭✭✭MagicMarker


    If she liked you then the first time you asked her out she would have said yes.

    She sounds like a headwrecker.


  • #9
    ~nop~
    Closed Accounts Posts: 245 ✭✭~nop~


    She wouldn't have asked YOU out this time if she wasn't really interested in something. Whether she likes you as a friend or as more than a friend is what you have to figure out now. Though she does sound like a bit of a player so i'd be wary!


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