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Depressed Girl Friend

  • 15-12-2008 08:36PM
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭


    I met the girl off my dreams and we hit it off straight away. We told each other everything from our pasts. She was married for 4 years and got divorced. This wasnt a problem for me as it was in the past. We fell head over heals in-love straight away. I done everything for her and treated her the best I could. In her words the best she has ever been treated ever. Things were going great untill she had to visit things from her past. She became very distant and got depressed. She apologised for being distant and told me it was all the things from her past catching up with her. I have told her I will stand by her and help her in anyway I can. I dont know what to do. She admitted wanting to get help but then finds it hard to actually go and get help. She doesnt talk to me now even tho we live together. I dont understand how someone who says they are in love can turn off. It doesnt matter what she does I still will be there if/when she wants to try again. All I have done is try to be nice to her and give her space. I am worried if I give her to much space she will think I dont care. On the other hand I dont want to crowd her into thinking I am being over the top. My head is a mess. I have never loved anyone this much and just want to make things back to how they were before.


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  • #2
    codeblack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34 ✭codeblack


    Unfortunately there is nothing you can do to make things go back to the way they were. However if you really love her, then all you can do is be there for her. Let her know you love her, and explain that you're there if she needs to talk etc. Then do not pressure into talking about it etc,she will when she is ready. If you two really have something, and you make it through this, it could actually make you closer than you were before.


  • #3
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,012 ✭✭✭✭LegacyUser


    Thanks we are talking again. I have explained that I am there for her when she is ready. I hope things do work out cause I love her so much. Its killing me but I am putting on a brave face. Trying to create a nice atmosphere and generally leaving things up to her.


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