new guy????

LegacyUser

i recently met this guy i really like and he said he liked me, we wnet on a few dates and ive met the family and friends, now he's gone all strange on me first he says he doesn't really do txts but he used to txt all the time now he has stopped txting completly with the last week, he wont reply to anything........should i take the hint that its off, i would have thought that he would have the b***s to say its off at least.
anyone any ideas

TripleT

Could be a number of reasons. You never know what's going on inside someones head. But for most people there's an almost electricity I suppose in the beginning stages of a relationship where you get excited if they text or meet up with them etc. He doesn't seem to feel this for whatever reason now so what's the point in chasing. Shoe is on the other foot, you'd text' back in about 2 minutes cause you're well keen like he should be. I'd leave it and if he comes back he comes back.

Sephiroth_dude

why dont you ring him up and ask him what the hell is going on,or else go round to his place and talk to him.

Kidchameleon

Hi,

Im a guy and I kinda dont like txting all the time, sometimes a gal will txt you non stop (guys can be like that too!) But I have to say that this doesent look good, if he was buzzin about you he'd love to be txting you! Assuming he's not interested he really should have more gut's and just say it! Is it possible he may not be able to txt you, like does he work late/shifts?

Good Luck to you!

Bloody*Mary

If he isn't replying to your texts then I wouldn't contact him again until you hear from him. He has your number and knows where to find you if that's what he wants.

Colonel_McCoy

Forget the texts and ring him......you will know then.

St Bill

He's not interested. That he doesn't have the b***s to tell you means that he's a twat and you've had a lucky escape .

Queencake

St Bill wrote: »

He's not interested. That he doesn't have the b***s to tell you means that he's a twat and you've had a lucky escape .

Yeah. He's just a cowardly twat. Forget him. He obviously is incredibly immature. Treat yourself like a princess the next few days and enjoy the nights out over Christmas.

SpookyDoll

now he has stopped txting completly with the last week, he wont reply to anything........should i take the hint that its off

Its more than a hint, I would say definitely over. Sorry.

wylo

Unregistered wrote: »

i recently met this guy i really like and he said he liked me, we wnet on a few dates and ive met the family and friends, now he's gone all strange on me first he says he doesn't really do txts but he used to txt all the time now he has stopped txting completly with the last week, he wont reply to anything........should i take the hint that its off, i would have thought that he would have the b***s to say its off at least.
anyone any ideas

well given the fact that youve went on a few proper dates and met the family he sounds like a complete toss_er for not even replying at all. Just leave him off, unfortunately hes not gonna care too much,sorry to say but better that than him leading you on any further

MagicMarker

Yeah, he's not interested... sorry.

However, I'd still call him as normal. See if he has the balls to actually say it. Or better yet, arrange to meet him (if he hasn't the balls to tell you it's over then he'll probably meet up)... then stand him up.

Yes, i'm a cúnt.

Queencake

MagicMarker wrote: »

Yeah, he's not interested... sorry.

However, I'd still call him as normal. See if he has the balls to actually say it. Or better yet, arrange to meet him (if he hasn't the balls to tell you it's over then he'll probably meet up)... then stand him up.

Yes, i'm a cúnt.

Nah, don't waste the energy (although I agree it might be funny ). Just go out and have some fun!

.DumDeDum.

Sorry hun but don't see this working out. Happened to me with my last bf and I didn't say anything but kept texting him and it ended up dragging out. Don't text him anymore, leave it and if you still hear nothing just forget him. I know it's easier said than done but really it's for the best, you deserve more respect! Go out and find someone you'll be begging to leave you alone

CianRyan

Don't be clingy, seriously, take it from a guy who's experienenced this first hand and watched it happens to friends, clingy=really annoying.

Sprouts

Delete his number so its not there for you to texts if you are a little drunk, if he gets back to you youll have it again that way. To be honest though if he was interested hed have gotten back to you by now.

abi2007

TripleT wrote: »

Could be a number of reasons. You never know what's going on inside someones head. But for most people there's an almost electricity I suppose in the beginning stages of a relationship where you get excited if they text or meet up with them etc. He doesn't seem to feel this for whatever reason now so what's the point in chasing. Shoe is on the other foot, you'd text' back in about 2 minutes cause you're well keen like he should be. I'd leave it and if he comes back he comes back.

I have to agree, don't contact him anymore, if he likes you he'll be in touch.

CianRyan

Forgot to mention.
Even if i am mad about a girl, i still hate texting people, i mean come one, why do you want to talk to the person 24/7?
It only takes away from how special it is being with them in person, maybe for an hour or so at night, its nice to text them or what ever, but constant texting can be really bad.

I can only guess its the same for most guys, and from what i've seen from people i know, it is.

Give him a buzz and arrage to meet up and judge by how he acts with you weather we wants to be with you, you'll be able to tell with in the first 5 minutes.

Seriously step away from the whole, having a relationship over a phone thing, its just pretty weird tbh, think about it like...

Sprouts

Theres nothing wrong with texting and recieving texts, its nice to know at least the person is thinking of you.

In$omniac

MagicMarker wrote: »

Yeah, he's not interested... sorry.

However, I'd still call him as normal. See if he has the balls to actually say it. Or better yet, arrange to meet him (if he hasn't the balls to tell you it's over then he'll probably meet up)... then stand him up.

Yes, i'm a cúnt.

+1

And make sure your looking knock dead gorgeus so he will see what he is missing
His loss another guys gain.