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My Life is CRAP

  • 11-12-2008 5:28pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    To start off I'm only an 18 year old lad in Dublin lol seems abit early to be writing problems like this but hey,
    I lost ALL of my friends a while back pre-summer because I didn't agree with there choices in life what they where doing wasn't me so I spent my summer at home doing nothing but watching TV and telling my parents that I wasn't going out because I (A) Didn't have Money and (B) That my mates where gone on holiday and (C) Because I was sick.

    Then summer ended and I started back in school a new one i might add and I started making a new friends, I'm shy and lack confidence. This is when the drama happens 2 friends of mine started going out etc and then the dude gets caught cheating on her, no one tells her untill she asks me what going on and I couldn't lie to her she was crying there infront of me I told myself I'd be honest and told her and everyone starts blaiming me ....

    It is at this stage my life begins to take another tumble I get in **** with my mate because I told the girl exactly what happened. And I lose more friends, I then find myself being VERY clingy with this girl that i told as I was always talking to her on the phone texts etc I go to a party last week and meet this girl I "score" her and the usual at this stage I'm feeling confident as the first time in my life i was actually really sociable and outgoing at a party and I find myself becoming irritiating to everyone there, I then proceded to text her cool enough i guess but i kept saying the wrong things and fecked it up until she now beleaves I'm a complete weirdo.

    I dunno why I'm doing this its driving me crazy I keep losing friends etc I have and now that I'm not talking to anyone I find myself going back to the lul of feeling unconfident and wondering why I'm basically f**king my life up.

    What do I do, I drive away the people, and I don't want to get to the stage where I'm not talking to anyone when summer arrives, I actually want to go out and have fun when its summer as I will have finished my LC.


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  • #2
    cantdecide
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    I suspect you might have expectations of your friends that are just too high- they don't have to gain your approval- people at your age disappoint each other and let each other down a lot before they mature. You will lose a large proportion of your friends to simple moving-apart after the LC but there is a great degree with self-sabotage that often goes with lower self esteem. You don't have to play the games but also you aren't the designated moral compass for your group. Go with the flow and get on with your life...


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