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not too sure..

  • 08-12-2008 7:54pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Here it goes, another boy thread...
    Met a really nice guy one weekend while I was out with friends. So the two of us hung out and chatted well into the early hours of the morning and on to the next evening. We decided to swap numbers. So i texted him mid last week and we arranged a evening this week to meet again.
    This is the thing Iam a little worried about... we have chatted a few times during the week, but only by text and online messaging which has been initiated by me. I did offer to give him a ring but he said to chat to him online instead( which lasted about 2 hours). From this I dont know, if he is really all that interested, or is he being shy about the whole thing.
    Iam I making mountains out off molehills here?


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  • #2
    Faith
    Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 30,661 Mod ✭✭✭✭Faith


    A lot of people have problems talking on the phone to people they don't know very well. It's really forced at lot of the time, and it's a lot easier to relax when talking via a less direct method. I wouldn't read anything into it.


  • #3
    Kidchameleon
    Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    Hi

    I agree with Faith, relax, nothing to worry about. I personally would prefer to chat by txt/net until I really got to know that girl, and I know thats how many guys feel. Good Luck!


  • #4
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    Im a better typist than a conversationalist. He might be the same. And it has NOTHING to do with an internet full of relationship advice at your fingertips either. I swear. But seriously.


  • #5
    BAsTid
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 21 ✭BAsTid


    I happen to think its better to txt and IM online as there is less chance of you running out of something to talk about it. Imagine chatting on the phone for 5mins and then have nothing else to say? Awkward silence on the phone heh.
    So OP dont worry so much about it now, any topics ya wanna talk about just do so face to face.


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