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Wanna have some fun.....

  • 07-12-2008 2:56pm
    #1
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    ok here is the problem, split up with long term gf of 5 years a few months ago. was really mad about her. don't think im really over her yet, but its getting better. thing is, im useless at chatting up women when im out. i have only recently wanted to actually move on from my ex and meet new people. its not like i want lots of one night stands or anything even close to that that, i just wanna have a bit of fun and kiss a few people.....i have always been cr@p at it though. any girls i have been with before have always been girls who know me well, work with me, met through friends etc...i don't really wanna get into the scenario again (well not at the moment), of chasing someone from work for weeks, going on a few dates, going out and next thing im in a relationship. i just wanna try move on from my ex and have some fun on a few nights out. im fairly outgoing around people i know but when it comes to nights out with mates, im useless at chatting to strangers. other people split up with someone and whenever they feel the time is right they kiss a few people before even thinking about getting into another relationship. anyone got suggestions on how i can change this? i mean i was in coppers for feck sake recently and i couldnt bring myself to go up and chat to someone!! i know this is a small issue, just wondering does anyone have any suggestions. i really just wanna have some fun now......


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  • Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal




  • Closed Accounts Posts: 5,482 ✭✭✭Kidchameleon


    I used to feel just like that, until a good friend of mine told me to think of people as humans, with feelings, shyness ect... This gets rid of feelings of intimidation that you have, works a treat! Oh don’t worry about coppers, if you go out just to pull, your going out for all the wrong reasons, go out, have a laugh, that should be your goal and anything else that may happen is just a bonus...


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