Help!

darling.x

I'm totally in love with one of the hot gym instructors in my gym. Hes something else. I didnt get the courage to chat him up and ask him out.

Anyways theres a xmas party next week for members. If anybody is familar with gym parties - would staff be going to this.

What would you all recommend - should i go to this xmas party. It would be a great opportunity to get drunk and hop on him.

Terry

Moved from AH.

giggsy664

PI?

If not, I feel somewhat obliged to provide you with a "Father jack guide on how to get drunk" but I currently am out of stock.

*Didnt know terry moved it. My bad

NUTZZ

darling.x wrote: »

I'm totally in love with one of the hot gym instructors in my gym. Hes something else. I didnt get the courage to chat him up and ask him out.

Anyways theres a xmas party next week for members. If anybody is familar with gym parties - would staff be going to this.

What would you all recommend - should i go to this xmas party. It would be a great opportunity to get drunk and hop on him.

Hey, I work in a gym, we have our party coming up pretty soon, and we've be told we all have to go!! Usually we all go anyways!

darling.x

NUTZZ wrote: »

Hey, I work in a gym, we have our party coming up pretty soon, and we've be told we all have to go!! Usually we all go anyways!

Thats great news. So theres a chance this hot instructor might be going.

NUTZZ

Yep there's a pretty good chance he'll be going!! But honestly, I work with 3 other guys (and four girls), and we do get asked out a lot about members, which is fine, but some very odd things have been said to us by members when they're drunk, which they later regret. Have you talked to him at all in the gym or do you get any looks or vibes from him when you're there?

darling.x

Hes a nice happy guy. Hes very friendly. I've talked to him about the weather and asked him for his pen.

Very late one night he stayed close by outside the ladies changing room doing feck all i'd say. And we said bye.

And thats about it really. Hes hot.

What kind of things do drunken members say to you nuttzz.

NUTZZ

darling.x wrote: »

I've talked to him about the weather and asked him for his pen.

Well your definitely in there so!! The weather thing never fails!!:p

Very late one night he stayed close by outside the ladies changing room doing feck all i'd say. And we said bye.

I've done that myself a few times!!

What kind of things do drunken members say to you nuttzz.

Very strange stalkerish things and usually giving out about other girls that they saw us talking to in the gym. However it does have positive sides, I've met a good few girls when out and its great ice breaker, especially if you're with a group of friends and you grab him by the arm and say "this is my gym instructor:pac:!!", you can talk about the gym for a bit, and then move on from there if its going well!

pinkcocktail

wouldnt it be funny if NUTZZZ was the instructor u are talkin about :P

darling.x

Thanks nuttzz. Hes absolutely hot.

bootsy11

you sound like a desperate retard, do the guy a favour and stay away.

Overheal

Bootsy youd do well to read the Personal Issues Forum Charter.

OP its purely physical. You might wake up the next day realising you threw yourself at someone you dont even know (without knowing if hes interested in you) and then youd have to see him at the gym all the time - queue awkwardness.

Calm yourself: you will have plenty of chances beyond the Christmas Party.

Kinetic^

NUTZZ wrote: »

Very strange stalkerish things

I think this is key here.

kelle

Darling x, go to the party but please don't get drunk. Have a couple of drinks to relax. It sounds like he already has a thing for you. All I can say is go there and be yourself. If a romance is meant to happen it will. If it's not, it won't (and you won't regret it the following morning if you said or did things you shouldn't have while drunk!).
Best of luck!

Wibbs

bootsy11 because of this and your other brilliant attempt at "humour" in such short order take a week off. If and when you come back read and follow the charter or it'll be permanent.