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Friend trouble

  • 23-11-2008 8:15pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi.

    I am having a bit of a hard time with a friend I considered to be my best friend.

    She can be hard work at the best of the time but never bothered me before.
    I hung in there for her because I thought she did the same for me.
    Before I go anything further hay I know I am no picnic either.

    Before we would talk about things, we work in a voluntary group together. Its my passion, if I won the lotto in the world I would work my butt off for this group full time. Maybe the odd time she took advantage- she probably didnt even realise it. It started to bother me though.

    We used to work as a team and I could go to her with problems and she did the same.
    but things have changed .

    Maybe I treated her, maybe I started to stand up for myself a bit more. But she cut me out of the loop.
    I got very sick there a while ago, I thought maybe that freaked her out. I can kinda understand that.

    I honestly have supported her in everything I can, even when I didnt really like the idea.
    I went to the shows she was in, helped with work, I even took time away from the voluntary group and to be honest that broke my heart in a way that I didnt think it would.

    I went to talk to a counsellor type person- I feel like I was the scrum of the earth for wanting to put my needs first.

    So right now I am trying my darnest to hang in there at the group.
    I know deep down she doesnt mean me any harm, but when I catch her glance she looks at me like I am something horrible she stood in.

    It really hurt that she hasnt even wished me happy birthday, and I know she didnt forgot because other people wished me so in front of her.

    Why do I miss our friendship so much wen she cant be bothering to look me in the eye anymore


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