There was a girl

Tragedy

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Just looking for opinions

Met nice girl, like her, attracted to her physically and personality wise and seem to have that ephermal spark.
However she's battling her past, and while she says she wants to get to know me/whatever and flirts quite a bit(over msn or text) she never makes an effort and is always too busy/snowed under with work+college. Which is fine, yet she's on MSN more than me and usually when I text her she's at home doing nothing much.

Met once in a month, no real clue if we'll meet again anytime soon.

Move quickly along and dont look back?

Brimmy

Give it time and see how thins go after the exam period. I know myself that I'm snowed under with college and I spend half my time sitting around the house not doing much work.. Case in point I meant to do a full assignment today and spent half the day watching the rugby and football before finally starting to getting around to do it now in the wee hours of Saturday morning :P

Hang in there and see how things go before you decide to chuck it away

abi2007

I'd forget about her, if she really liked you she'd make the effort.

Tragedy

It's a tad bit more complicated than just being busy.
She threw herself at me at the start and has a tendency to turn everything into flirting, she also has baggage with men and is having a hard time of it at the mo.

So I'm afraid I'm letting sympathy and caring(because I've been through similarish stuff, same with friends) make me keep giving her breaks and cutting her slack when really she needs a kick in the ass and learn how to treat people. Like she isn't a friend or someone I've known ages, I dont owe her support or to be dumped on and given nothing back?

Ah I know the answer to this already I suspect.
There's a difference between being hurt and damaged, and damaged people damage those around them

G86

God this could be me dude. I was seeing a guy recently but I'm completely snowed under with work this year and it just wasn't possible to keep seeing him. I honestly think she could well be telling the truth - don't rule her out yet. I'm the same to be honest, I'm happy to text/chat but just don't have the time to be seeing someone, so I completely understand where she's coming from.

I''d say your best bet is to stay in touch, then when things ease up for her work wise ye can see where ye go from there.

Don't give up just yet!:)

Liam Byrne

Tragedy wrote: »

There's a difference between being hurt and damaged, and damaged people damage those around them

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