getin over a broken hear

animum

hi all,

how do u get over a broken heart? i was with a guy for 5 years on and off, we had a child together an di loved him more than life itself, he kissed a girl while i was pregnant and i forgave him, but we are finishde now abt 6 months or so and i discoverred he is still with her!! i hurts like nothing i have ever hurted before, he told me that she wants a proper go of things, i wished him the best via text but its killing me. im a single mom, i get one nite out and i cant get to meet anyone else! i know im not the only other person on the planet to have to go through this.
the other problem is because we have broken up so many times, i cant say it to my friends, i feel like a broken record!!
when i wished him the best he text the next morning saying she only asked to make a go of things, but that he isnt going to do it?
i asked him why did he tell me so?? just to hurt me?/

why would someone hurt someone like that? i am doing a dam good job or raising his son, im not out 24/7? im not kissing loads of men or having one nite stands? he chose to left and i have offerred lots of times to make a go of things, seek relationship counselling etc?
i never stop him seeing his child, i include him in his life constantly, ring him when sick, when he praised in school etc. took pics at halloween of him dressed up and sent them to him. never block him from the childs life. i have moved to the opposite side of the city and left all 'our' friends behind. am doing my best. but why would he continue to text me abt women he with and especially her. i have asked him to stop, unless they are to influence my childs life i shouldnt need to know?

question so: how do you get over it? cant get it out of my head?

why would a person tell thier ex abt thier sexual activity wiht other women??? any views??

mickyt

Well, getting over it would take time naturally, but to hear from him all the time like that will prolong the time it takes to get past it.

I know he needs to be spend time with your child and thats good that he wants to share his life..

but to tell you about new Gfriends its just not on.. especially so soon.

Tell him, you will deal with him from your sons point only and don't expect personal texts.

its the only way you have a chance of getting past this rough phase of your life.

You will come out of it stronger though. focus all your energy on your son til you are past your ex.. then im sure there will be a lovely man out there willing to share his life with you and your son.

Good luck