dilemma

LegacyUser

Hi,

I really like this guy, but i have a gut feeling that there could be a drink/ gambling problem there, he works fulltime and has his own place so maybe both are under control.

An ex of mine drank a lot and ended up becoming an alcoholic and I just think how do i keep falling for these guys??

advice please??

JaneyMc

If you are only at a stage where you like him, walk away now.

If your gut feeling is right (make sure it is), having a relationship with this guy isn't worth your time.

crazzzzy

why do u think he has drink/gambling problem?

LegacyUser

he always talks about gambling and has said that he is big into it, again i don't know if he could just stop if he had to, he appears to bet on everything.
as for the drink, once you've been around an alcoholic you just notice little things

crazzzzy

tbh alot of irish guys r really into their drink/gambling without it being a problem.

on the other hand, drink/gambling problem is a terrible addiction. if u really think he could have problem then dont get involved.

u had a bad experience with ur ex & dont need to go tro that again. u mite just be unlucky to have met two guys with addiction problems, it doesnt mean that u wont meet a different type of guy nxt time

Jimmy Bottlehead

Keep looking and don't settle. If this guy is giving you doubts and its not even that far in, then something is wrong.

Walk. There are better guys out there.

davyjose

You don't need him, and to be quite honest, he doesn't need you.