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Problem with my friend

  • 16-11-2008 4:49pm
    #1
    gb95
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭


    I have this best friend that I have know for about 2 years. I trust her completey but recently she made not trust all my other friends and I have broking friends with almost everyone and I other have her left. and now she is acting strange to now she says things then later she changes mind like she says that she does not want to go out with people and when I argee she makes me out to be the bad person like I do not like that person. I don't know what to do I feel like I am going to lose her to I can't lose her she all I have. but I am beginning to not trust her. I hope someone can help me


Comments

  • #2
    Kinetic^
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,249 ✭✭✭✭Kinetic^


    I can't understand 1 god damn word what you just wrote. Try using full stops.


  • #3
    gb95
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭gb95


    I done periods I hope that helps


  • #4
    cantdecide
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 11,465 ✭✭✭✭cantdecide


    Your friend sounds like a not very nice person. She's quite entitled to be the way she is but you should probably de-prioritize her friendship. People like that will make your head spin. I knew someone like that until recently.


  • #5
    Firetrap
    Closed Accounts Posts: 4,442 ✭✭✭Firetrap


    She doesn't sound like a friend to me. Friends are nice people who hang around with you because you like them and they like you. They don't try to make you not see other friends.

    I get the impression from your post that you're hanging onto this girl for dear life, not necessarily because she's a friend any more, but because you like the thought of her being your friend. There's a difference.


  • #6
    gb95
    Closed Accounts Posts: 3 ✭gb95


    cantdecide & Firetrap thanks for your advice


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  • #7
    Bottle_of_Smoke
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 9,770 ✭✭✭Bottle_of_Smoke


    You have to be yourself. Are you often afraid to say things in case she'll be annoyed/disapprove? Stand up to her and say what you think, you'd be surprised how much could help the friendship.

    I take it you're foreign from your post, are you living in Ireland? Is is difficult to make new friends? Gumtree is excellent, I know a bunch of Australians who all met from it and live in Dublin, try anything, worst thing you can have is a controlling friend.


  • #8
    star-pants
    Closed Accounts Posts: 13,429 ✭✭✭✭star-pants


    By the sounds of it she wanted you to eliminate all of your friends, leaving just her. And now she's messing with your head? She's not being very much like your friend. You don't have to cut her out - but I wouldn't rely on her as much as you do. Try and make back the friends you lost.


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