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  • 13-11-2008 10:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Not a major problem i suppose, but its a real hinderence...
    Im terrible at reading people, and usually end up being pessimistic and ruining things for myself. I can never tell when a guy likes me. It rarely ever happens that ill notice that a guy likes me, and the only times i do notice its always a guy im not interested in in that way.
    I always get myself in situations like so:
    -A guy likes me
    -I like him but dont cop that the feeling is mutual
    -He tries to make "moves" on me
    -Im completely ignorant to it and treat him like a friend
    -He gets that im treating him as just a mate and figures im not interested
    -I find out the next day from everyone i was with that he was interested
    -Cue feeling like an idiot

    Im just hopeless when it comes to reading people and always assume that guys i like arent interested


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  • #2
    JuliusCaesar
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 4,885 ✭✭✭JuliusCaesar


    First, stop assuming that! Assume instead that you are a reasonably attractive woman, and that you can allow yourself to be attractive and to express your sensual side. Allow yourself to flirt. Look at the guy you fancy sideways I mean out of the corner of your eye, smile, look away...that kind of thing. I'm a crappy flirt myself, so maybe some of the other ladies here or in the Ladies Lounge have better advice. But this works for me.


  • #3
    samhail
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,699 ✭✭✭samhail


    JuliusCaesar wrote: »
    ...Assume instead that you are a reasonably attractive woman...

    way to put words in the OPs mouth ! ;) heh... nah

    exactly... dont go for a guy that you think is interested in you... then you get interested in him after you find out... go for a guy that you are interested in in the first place ?


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