Does anyone feel the same way as me?

LegacyUser

Hello guys,

I just am feeling a bit down at the moment, I am single in my 30s and would dearly love to meet some nice guy, but it hasnt happened yet. I was married for a few years and that finished and since then I have had a few different relationships but nothing of any depth. I am a very active person, regularly go out, a member of a sports club etc.......but I just feel like its not enough, I have nice friends and that but feel my life is empty and that I am just going through it now and not happy. I know some people will say a man doesnt fix everything but if you want to have a family etc it does.........I hate to be moaning because I am generally in good form and always smiling but life gets to me at certain times. Has anyone any advice support they could share? Thanks for reading this post.........

Karen_*

Oh I feel just like you do! Was just wondering today had everyone my age died or something because everyone seems to be younger!:D

I'm just trying to enjoy my life and enjoy my own company but like yourself I've had massive changes and so its a bit more difficult than for other people. My advice is just to keep meeting new people and new friends and make the most of life and each day. I always say that you don't know what's around the corner and its very true. You WILL meet someone. You always havebefore so you must have loads going for you.

Try some new things. And outward focus is always very rewarding. Even people in relationships have bad days and times where they feel empty or that there's more to life.

TheZohanS

Ladies you'll find yourself a nice guy, probably when you least expect it.

There is someone out there for everyone...actually there's probaby more than one person out there for everyone but don't get greedy.

Just get out there and enjoy yourselves!

Karen_*

Thanks Zohan! I'm just enjoying my own fabulous company for now. I'm far too young at 34 to be settled down:p:D

von Neumann

Hay OP,

I'm around the same age as you and in a similar boat.
It was gets to me too.
so I stopped chasing, and stopped torturing myself over it.

I've tried adjusting to the Idea that I might not meet some one special.
That was tough at first, but I now reckon I have a plan that I'm happy with.
And I think I'm generally happier now, as I was putting myself under a lot of pressure to find Ms right.

Don't get me wrong it would be nice if Ms Right would turn up, but at least I don't feel my whole life hinges on it any more.

LegacyUser

Thanks girls for your replies and advice, I think I will just try not to dwell on this as much as I do, I have even tried internet dating and have met guys who have no respect whatsoever, so I think to myself I am better on my own than be with such guys.........I hope that things will change because it would be such a wonderful thing to meet someone nice to share things in life with......thanks again for your replies.........

LegacyUser

Can't say much.

Join the club.

Keep yourself active and possitive. You have the right actitude. Homonal changes make us go through all these mood changes and we veryoften need having someone beside us.

Blues will go.. just hope does not scar you so much that you forget that you enjoy life. Then you will find someone that vibrates at your rithm.

There are so many like us...

Good luck

von Neumann

Hay I'm a guy , just incase there's any confusion, wouldn't want people to get the wrong impression.