Girl who kinda called rape...!?

LegacyUser

Ok this sounds abit drawn out but bare with me...

About 8months ago a friend of mine came up from the country, we went out in dublin and had a blast. In the nightclub he got chatting to a group of 4 girls and asked them back to mine for a party (with my blessing). So me my friend and I and the 4 girls got in a big taxi. Before we left however I kissed one of the girls in the club and my friend was kissing another. Anyways in the taxi on the way home the girl I was with was all over the place, we had to pull over twice in the taxi for her to get sick. Her friends didnt seem to concerned about her saying "ah she always gets like this after a few drinks"

So we pulled up to my house and went inside, we started having a few drinks etc and the girl that I was with earlier just lay down on the couch and fell asleep. About an hour later she wakes up and starts puking everywhere, so of course we cleaned up, then she she started going crazy (crying hysterically,shouting etc) I was fairly worried about her at this stage so I told the girls they had better bring her home. Anyway I rang a taxi and they left shortly afterwards, I obviously never exchanged numbers with any of them and neither did my friend so we didnt hear from them again.

So roll on last weekend and im in the same nightclub we were when we met them and the girl who I was with happened to be there. So I went over to her and said the usual "ah hows it going, did yis get home allright that night, you were in some state etc" And she looked blankly at me for a minute before she copped who I was and then (in a very Blàise way) goes "ah your the fella that drugged me that time!" Cue my jaw dropping to the ground etc, first of all I thought she was messing with me because she seemed so casual with it, but the more I talked to her to try and protest my innocence the more I realised that she did actually think I date raped her. None of her friends from the night in question were there so I couldnt even clear my name with them. The weirdest thing was that I kept bumping into her that night and everytime I did she would wave at me or say hello or whatever. Needless to say im still in total shock, I rang my mate and he couldnt believe it, he was like "f&*k her, what a crazy bitch,sure you know you didnt and thats all that matters" But I feel like I need to clear my name somehow. I cant bear the thought of her (and possibly her mates?) thinking that im some kind of sexual predator.

Wibbs

Sounds immature and emotionally loopy to me. Felt embarassed(and I suspect not for the first time) and blames others for her actions. TBH I wouldn't worry about it. You know what happened, her mates know what happened, your mates know what happened, so that kinda settles it.

solace

Flabergasted wrote: »

Her friends didnt seem to concerned about her saying "ah she always gets like this after a few drinks"

I wouldn't worry, especially if she's always like that; she can hardly cry date-rape after every night out.

AngryBadger

Wibbs wrote: »

Sounds immature and emotionally loopy to me. Felt embarassed(and I suspect not for the first time) and blames others for her actions. TBH I wouldn't worry about it. You know what happened, her mates know what happened, your mates know what happened, so that kinda settles it.

+1 When the man's right, he's right.

seamus

Any girl who suspects you of "drugging" her, let alone raping her, would not be waving and saying "Hi" when she sees you.

Either she's got a very odd sense of humour or she's an entire truckload of cherry fruit loops.

Your mate(s) know what happened, her mates were there and know what happened. Chalk her down as a lunatic and be glad that she was too drunk that night for things to have gone any further.

orlyice

you dont have to clear your name, nobody will thing of you are a sex predator, they'll think of you as "the guy who kissed the loopy girl who called date rape because she couldnt handle her drink". there is probably a lot of ye thanks to that girl.

Bill-e

seamus wrote: »

Any girl who suspects you of "drugging" her, let alone raping her, would not be waving and saying "Hi" when she sees you.

Either she's got a very odd sense of humour or she's an entire truckload of cherry fruit loops.

Your mate(s) know what happened, her mates were there and know what happened. Chalk her down as a lunatic and be glad that she was too drunk that night for things to have gone any further.

True, Imagine if you'd gotten her boxed!

kmick

She as loopy as the ad in the corner that keeps saying "George Bush's IQ = 125".

Wibbs

kmick stay on topic and read the charter.

jhegarty

sounds like someone is trying to cover up her alcohol problem

Wagon

Sounds like a tit. Wouldn't be worrying man.

MIN2511

Hopefully she only said that, and isn't running to the police screaming rape.
If she did, that would be a different story. Tbh i would have confronted her, when a girl says something like this it's likely people would buy her story over yours...

Redpunto

Give the club a miss for a while, if she seriously thought you had drugged her she wouldnt be actin casual, she would be running for the hills when she saw ya coming. Sounds like she just has a sick sense of humour.

Mr. Incognito

ah, this reminds me of the thread in the ladies lounge a while back. Womins gets plastered and start accusing men of drugging them.

The girl is an idiot. Don't worry one second about it.

The Mighty Ken

Sounds like a complete dipso. Absolutely no need to clear your name. She's the kind of scumbag that makes it difficult for genuine rape victims to find justice.