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Absolutely Terrified

  • 03-11-2008 12:49pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    On Friday I was at a party with this girl. We're both 21, and I've known her a bit for about 3 years, (we hung out with some of the same people and I'd see her every few months). I've been seeing her a lot more lately and we've had a bit of kiss twice when we were both pretty hammered, and on Friday I kinda mentioned that I should take her out somewhere sometime.
    Now, I've been telling myself since I got home on Saturday that I'll give her a call today and see if she's up for a movie and drinks or something casual like that during the week.

    But to be honest, Im absolutely terrified. My stomach's in a knot, and so many things are racing through my mind. Does she like me as seriously as I like her, or was it just the booze? Should I mention that I asked her on Friday? What will i say if she says no?

    I know I'm probably just being rediculous, acting like this at 21, but I've never really "asked someone out" on a proper date.

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  • #2
    mickyt
    Closed Accounts Posts: 117 ✭✭mickyt


    would it may be a bit easier to drop it to her in a text, it means it wont be as hard and you can brush it off as just a suggestion if she says no


  • #3
    Otacon
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 6,721 ✭✭✭Otacon


    Call her.

    Say "Hey, wanna see Quantum of Solace Friday night?"

    She says "Yeah sure" [good] "Can't. How about Saturday night" [good] "Can't (no alternate suggestion)" [bad]

    You then know where you stand. You can also just brush it off, implying you were trying to get a possé together to go.


  • #4
    kmick
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,375 ✭✭✭kmick


    Did she already say yes to a date? If so just ring and get it over with. You'll be fine.


  • #5
    andrewh5
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 588 ✭✭✭andrewh5


    Grow some balls FFS! :rolleyes:


  • #6
    kaimera
    Closed Accounts Posts: 16,396 ✭✭✭✭kaimera


    Otacon wrote: »
    Call her.

    Say "Hey, wanna see Quantum of Solace Friday night?"

    She says "Yeah sure" [good] "Can't. How about Saturday night" [good] "Can't (no alternate suggestion)" [bad]

    You then know where you stand. You can also just brush it off, implying you were trying to get a possé together to go.
    or go see a movie that isnt going to be a) completely sold out or b) only have seats left at the very front. :P

    Just call her, she'll appreciate the call :)


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  • #7
    Curvy Vixen
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 1,131 ✭✭✭Curvy Vixen


    Don't text her OP. You'll possibly end up with an immediate answer or more likely a period of time of self torment if there is no answer from her.

    Then you have to go through the 'did she give me the right number', 'does she have any credit', 'did she actually recieve the text' etc, etc.

    Prepare what you're going to say, keep it short and sweet and ring her!! Oh, and prepare what to say just in case it goes to voicemail too or decide in advance to just hang up!


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