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LegacyUser

Hey all me 23 and my boyfriend 28 were wondering if ye would be able to help us out with some advice. We have been going out for 6 months and only starting sleeping together within past 5 weeks or so, the problem is, is that i cant feel nothing when he enters me, so far we've only done it in missionary and me on top but i cant feel nothing in either possition, and its not because he is small in size because he's not that either. also he comes really quickly and it is begining to get to him because he sees this as part of the reason that i am not enjoying sex.
Any advice or solutions would be greatly apprectiated by us both, thanks.

Marksie

well, you can concentrate on non openetrative forms of sex, using touch, hands and tongue..making that the whole rather than penetration..it can be infinitely more satisfying.

But when you masturbate or use toys, do you get any sensations? You may want to be going to the doctor if not.

Alternatively... you could try kegel exercises to tighten the vaginal muscles and grip your boyfriends penis as you squeeze.
try altrenate positions which enable the g-sppot an other areas to be stimulated... from behind is good.

Your boyfreind can do versions fo kegels to improve his staying power, or use teh stop/ start technique to control his ejaculation.

Chaneg the thinking though, work on the fact that penetration is only a tiny part of sex.

RoosterIllusion

I find it takes a while to get used to having sex with someone new and the sex at the start is never as good as the sex at the middle (or the end).