Did I handle this wrong??

Four-Too

At work in the bar tonight, this girl grabs me tie and is like "You look sooo good, beautiful etc." I say "so do you!". She asks me where I am going after, and I said I don't know. I ask her where she lives - get a reply. Suddenly she leaves saying that I showed no interest! My workmates were there so I didn;t want to flirt outrageously or anything. What went wrong here?

Carrigart Exile

Four-Too wrote: »

At work in the bar tonight, this girl grabs me tie and is like "You look sooo good, beautiful etc." I say "so do you!". She asks me where I am going after, and I said I don't know. I ask her where she lives - get a reply. Suddenly she leaves saying that I showed no interest! My workmates were there so I didn;t want to flirt outrageously or anything. What went wrong here?

Nothing mate, lucky escape.

St Bill

No you didn't do anything wrong. The girl probably thought you weren't interested when you said you didn't know where you were going afterwards. She might have had a few drinks and so everything was blown out of proportion. And she was probably nervous about chatting you up. Next time you see her, get talking to her (if you like her, that is!)

Lollipops23

psycho alert!!!she sounds desperate or drunk....or both!!

FunkZ

You were at work so I'm gonna assume you were sober and she was not. So ya didn't do anything wrong, you shouldn't want to get stuck into someone that seems that drunk anyway. It would have only ended badly...

Nision

FunkZ wrote: »

You were at work so I'm gonna assume you were sober and she was not. So ya didn't do anything wrong, you shouldn't want to get stuck into someone that seems that drunk anyway. It would have only ended badly...

Dead right, also wouldnt have looked good in ffront of work crowd, thats diamond gossip and the whole company would know in a week (with the embellishments of the office gossip)

MagicMarker

You did nothing wrong....

Once at a party, as an 18 year old i think. Woman in her late 20's/early 30's comes over and sits next to me and says ''hey, you're cute'', me in all my innocence reply with... ''I know''. She wasn't amused:D

Carturo

Lollipops23 wrote: »

psycho alert!!!she sounds desperate

So does the OP to be fair.

Nision

FunkZ wrote: »

You were at work so I'm gonna assume you were sober and she was not. So ya didn't do anything wrong, you shouldn't want to get stuck into someone that seems that drunk anyway. It would have only ended badly...

Dead right, also wouldnt have looked good in front of work crowd, thats diamond gossip and the whole company would know in a week (with the embellishments of the office gossip)

Time out

You did nothing wrong - fault all with her, prob a bit drunk or embarrassed at herself for been so upfront.

Four-Too

I agree, it was a lucky escape. I wasn;t going to turn her away....phew!