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Too close to opposite sex best friend?

  • 01-11-2008 4:26pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hello all,
    Haven't posted here before, said I'd give it a shot.

    About last december I met a guy, and he's amazing, but a month later I introduced him to my close friend, lets call her Ann, and they started going out. Over the time I've grown closer and closer to him, and he's told me things like I'm more important than 'Ann' and that he can't live without me. We tell each other we love each other all the time and I can't go one day without talking to him.

    About 2 weeks ago he came over for the day when we had a day off, and we just lay on my bed cuddling and watching tv all day, and I wish I could say I felt guilty but I really didn't. I really don't know if I've allowed myself to get too close to him or not. I tell him more than I tell 'Ann' and 'Ann' and I are drifting apart. I love him with all my heart but I don't know if maybe we're heading in the wrong direction? I'm so confused. This feels more real than what I had with my last boyfriend of 9 months.
    Bearing in mind I just turned 18 and I'm only in 6th year.
    Advice?

    Thanks.


Comments

  • #2
    Redpunto
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,024 ✭✭✭Redpunto


    Hes cheating on your friend with you, if he can do that then hes really not that nice a guy. If you do like him then he needs to do the "right" thing and dump your friend and then you can be together all ya want.


  • #3
    codeblack
    Closed Accounts Posts: 34 ✭codeblack


    basically ye're acting like boyfriend and girlfriend except without the sex. If you two are that serious about each other, he really needs to break things with 'Ann'. If he doesnt, and he continues to act this way with you, you should seriously consider what exactly his game is.


  • #4
    Monsoon26
    Closed Accounts Posts: 32 ✭Monsoon26


    I think you should just sh@g him & get it over with..:D


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