used and kicked aside

LegacyUser

What a flippin tool I am!
I am newly single female and had just started seeing this (what I thought) "great" guy! He said all the right things and we were havin fun and he knew I was falling for him he said he was fallin for me and asked me to be his girlfriend(we are both in our late 20's) and then he starts blowing hot and cold! And then he freaks out and starts playin games so I kicked him to the kerb! But Im feelin like he used me.

Why? Because I have been hearing that he goes out wit girls 4 like a few weeks and gets rid of them!

Now I could break his legs - cos I really did fall for him "seriously" ! I actually thought that it was gona be a good thing! But I feel like he lied to me to get me in the sack and its like he knew I would giv him the boot if he started to wreck my head!

But now Im being the typical stupid girl and wasting more time thinkin bout him! He is a user and abuser and I have never had that b4! I dont let people in easily and this has completly disheartned me.

Its like I know how to pick the ejets !!

Sorry had to get that 1 out cos the girls will only slate me 4 being so naive(and probably rightly so!)

Wagon

Some people are arseholes. Nothing you can do about it but don't worry. Break his legs if it'll make you feel better but he doesn't even warrent that attention. What I will say is this: don't lose hope and don't let this eejit warp your view on the male gender. There's a lot of good men out there. And your not stupid or gullable. You'd be stupid if you shagged him again :P

smares

I dont think you were naive.You were not to know he was like that. Of course your going to think about him if you really liked him but your best off trying to forget about him (i know easier said then done). If your newly single maybe just have some fun before jumping into another relationship and that will defo help forget him!!

tatt chic

you are not niave, unfortunately it takes time for people to show their true colours and its lucky you found out before it really got serious!

you will be grand! maybe stay single and have some fun with your friends for a while

MagicMarker

Unregistered wrote: »

so I kicked him to the kerb!

This is all you have to focus on, fair play to ya.

Mr. Incognito

so I kicked him to the kerb! But Im feelin like he used me.

Why? Because I have been hearing that he goes out wit girls 4 like a few weeks and gets rid of them!

So you kicked a guy to the kerb, a guy you admitted said all the right things because of what you HEARD off little busy bodies? And then you blame HIM?

Sounds like he's better off tbh.

LegacyUser

SetantaL wrote: »

So you kicked a guy to the kerb, a guy you admitted said all the right things because of what you HEARD off little busy bodies? And then you blame HIM?

Sounds like he's better off tbh.

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Well now Im only hearing these things this week and I got rid last week.

kyp_durron

You sound bat**** insane. That dood got lucky.

What I am getting at is, you "kicked him to the kerb" based on hearsay. Then you want to break his legs for using you. Are you on meds, serious question btw?

How did he freak out exactly?

The Corinthian

used person!!! wrote: »

Well now Im only hearing these things this week and I got rid last week.

What mind games was he playing? How bad were they that they resulted in a red card in so short a time? Does his reputation have merit or is it simply post-facto hearsay? What is your personal issue with this, or did you simply want to vent publicly?

In fairness, from what you've said so far, I'd have to agree with kyp_durron.