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Is it time to walk away?

  • 28-10-2008 9:17pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    Hi,

    I am going through a very rough patch with my OH and I wanted to see what others thought. We are both 23 and have been together for 2 years.

    Sometimes I feel he just doesn't treat me as well as I (or anyone) deserves to be treated.
    We had a special night planned on Friday night as rarely spend time together unless it is surrounded by our mutual group of friends. Whereas after dinner and the cinema, I wanted to go for a couple of drinks just the 2 of us and have a chat, he forced us to go back to his friends in the pub (with me kicking and screaming) and just doesn't care how this makes me feel. All I wanted was him for want to spend some time with me.

    Then on sunday we went out to meet his parents who live about 1.5 hours from Dublin. I thought this may be the opportunity for us to spend some time together. Instead he invited his mates down to come along on the trip with us!!! Then when they went to bed, the lads got some drugs and got off their heads, while I was absolutely furious and had to fork out for a taxi back to Dublin.

    Needless to say I am absolutely livid/sad/angry/dissappointed. He doesn't even think he has done anything wrong.

    I don't know what I want anymore, can anybody enlighten me on what to do please. :-(


Comments

  • #2
    SarahSassy
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 3,145 ✭✭✭SarahSassy


    He sounds like he is playing up and doing what he wants and is not putting the 'partner' into 'partnership'.

    I dont advocate breaking up with someone without good reason and I think you need to take a step back. Go back to building up your own life and let him slot into your life and not the other way around... He is taking you for granted and you are letting him. Only by getting your confidence and pride back can you decide if he is the one for you. Dont live your life through him and beg for his time, do what you want to do for yourself and then decide if he is suitable for you to spend your time with... I suspect when you are more independent and confident you will move on...


  • #3
    Redpunto
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 2,024 ✭✭✭Redpunto


    What age are you both? He sounds like hes acting like a 16 year old.


  • #4
    towel401
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2,917 ✭✭✭towel401


    unreggo243 wrote: »
    Hi,

    I don't know what I want anymore, can anybody enlighten me on what to do please. :-(

    uhh.. run for it?

    @punto read the start of the post


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