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What do you do after hours ? What do you do ?!

Jeebus · 2008-10-27 23:43:00

You're in a club. You're talking to a mate, your girlfriend is talking to hers. You look away for a second, and you turn back to see your girlfriend batin' into her extremely good-looking female friend. Are you pissed off ? If she asks you if she can beforehand, what do you say ? Someone asked me this question earlier, I'm…

27-10-2008 11:43pm

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You're in a club. You're talking to a mate, your girlfriend is talking to hers.

You look away for a second, and you turn back to see your girlfriend batin' into her extremely good-looking female friend.

Are you pissed off ?

If she asks you if she can beforehand, what do you say ?

Someone asked me this question earlier, I'm not sure how I should feel on it ! Is it cheating ?

I'd probably be extremely mad and probably dump her over it if it happened me, to be honest.

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#2 27-10-2008 11:44pm

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It's completely cheating. If my boyfriend did it I would be incredibly pissed off. It shows a complete lack of consideration and respect for the other person.

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#3 27-10-2008 11:46pm

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Take a video with your phone, man.

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#4 27-10-2008 11:47pm

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The question should be......what don't you do?! Threesomes for a long time and then P45 for them both when 1 refuses to participate. That'll learn em good!

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#5 28-10-2008 12:02am

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Piste wrote: »

It's completely cheating. If my boyfriend did it I would be incredibly pissed off. It shows a complete lack of consideration and respect for the other person.

Would you dump him ?

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#6 28-10-2008 12:04am

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Cheating is cheating, no matter which gender is involved.

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#7 28-10-2008 12:04am

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Wake up and replace my soiled underwear.

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#8 28-10-2008 12:05am

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No. Doesn't matter if it were a girl or a boy, I probably wouldn't break up with him if he cheated.

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#9 28-10-2008 12:07am

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Piste wrote: »

No. Doesn't matter if it were a girl or a boy, I probably wouldn't break up with him if he cheated.

Would you be piste off at him though. :pac:

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#10 28-10-2008 12:08am

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Piste wrote: »

No. Doesn't matter if it were a girl or a boy, I probably wouldn't break up with him if he cheated.

What constitutes a dumping then?

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#11 28-10-2008 12:09am

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Eating is not cheating

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#12 28-10-2008 12:09am

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Kinetic^ wrote: »

What constitutes a dumping then?

*fights urge to link to certain site involving 2 girls 1 cup*

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#13 28-10-2008 12:10am

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A dumping is when you break up with someone.

I jsut said I'de be very pissed off. And hurt, i'd be very hurt too.

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#14 28-10-2008 12:10am

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I'm not too sure, although my perception of my girlfriend would certainly shift.

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#15 28-10-2008 12:13am

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Piste wrote: »

No. Doesn't matter if it were a girl or a boy, I probably wouldn't break up with him if he cheated.

You wouldn't break up with him for cheating ?

Why in God's name not ?

He was kissing another girl...like...why wouldn't you ?

Sorry, it just makes no sense to me.

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#16 28-10-2008 12:16am

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I'd ride the **** outta the girlfriends best mate, she wouldn't have a choice like cause you and your girlfriend are a unit and she already kissed your bird so basically she kissed ya.

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#17 28-10-2008 12:18am

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Jeebus wrote: »

You wouldn't break up with him for cheating ?

Why in God's name not ?

He was kissing another girl...like...why wouldn't you ?

Sorry, it just makes no sense to me.

Maybe I'm too much of a romantic, but I believe that you should only brak up with someone when you no longer love someone, and love doesn't disappear like a puff of smoke once you found out they cheated. (I assume, don't want to ever fidn out for sure though!)

Even if you were completely in love with someone would you really break up with them just cos they kissed someone else?

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#18 28-10-2008 12:27am

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Piste wrote: »

Maybe I'm too much of a romantic, but I believe that you should only brak up with someone when you no longer love someone, and love doesn't disappear like a puff of smoke once you found out they cheated. (I assume, don't want to ever fidn out for sure though!)

Even if you were completely in love with someone would you really break up with them just cos they kissed someone else?

Love has to work both ways, and if she truly loved you the situation wouldn't and shouldn't arise in the first place.

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#19 28-10-2008 12:28am

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Pfft, ain't no bitch worth my love homeslice.

Guys on the other hand, om nom nom.

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#20 28-10-2008 12:29am

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Piste wrote: »

Maybe I'm too much of a romantic, but I believe that you should only brak up with someone when you no longer love someone, and love doesn't disappear like a puff of smoke once you found out they cheated. (I assume, don't want to ever fidn out for sure though!)

Even if you were completely in love with someone would you really break up with them just cos they kissed someone else?

If she kissed somebody else she clearly has no respect for me or my feelings, so if I were completely in love, it would be hard, but ultimately I think I would be fooling myself into thinking everything would be OK if I didn't.

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#21 28-10-2008 12:32am

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Biggins wrote: »

Love has to work both ways, and if she truly loved you the situation wouldn't and shouldn't arise in the first place.

I'd have to agree with this.

I can't think of any mitigating circumstances that would make it OK, apart from obvious things like rape or Johnny Depp.

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#22 28-10-2008 12:32am

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Throw her one of these...

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#23 28-10-2008 12:34am

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If a relationship is like a house and she does something like that - the foundations of the relationship are weak.
And if they are weak, everything else built upon it thusly, is on further shaky ground.

If the foundation of love is not solid to begin with, your walking on grounds that sooner or later will collapse ...does that make sense?

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#24 28-10-2008 12:38am

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Jeebus wrote: »

I'd have to agree with this.

I can't think of any mitigating circumstances that would make it OK, apart from obvious things like rape or Johnny Depp.

I saw this happen once before and the cause was that the two girls had apparently been seen powdering their noses in the jacks, then the came out and started wearing each other on the high of it...

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#25 28-10-2008 12:41am

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I'd lash it into both of them then drop her like its hot straight afterwards for cheating :cool:

To quote Father Stack, "I've had my fun, and that's all that matters."

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#26 28-10-2008 1:27am

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I can't believe how serious you all get about things like this. Girls (young) just do things like this for a bit of fun or a dare or whatever sometimes, if that makes you jealous, you're a controlling insecure freak as far as I'm concerned.

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#27 28-10-2008 1:28am

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What if the girl's best friend was a guy and she was kissing him for a bit of fun or a dare?

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#28 28-10-2008 1:33am

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BraziliaNZ wrote: »

Girls (young) just do things like this...

Among other things...

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#29 28-10-2008 1:44am

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Piste wrote: »

What if the girl's best friend was a guy and she was kissing him for a bit of fun or a dare?

Well that's different I suppose, because historically girlfriends aren't supposed to snog other blokes

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#30 28-10-2008 1:48am

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Historically other halfs/partners shouldn't be scoring other people.

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#31 28-10-2008 2:13am

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I'd get very pissed off, very quickly.

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#32 28-10-2008 12:36pm

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BraziliaNZ wrote: »

I can't believe how serious you all get about things like this. Girls (young) just do things like this for a bit of fun or a dare or whatever sometimes, if that makes you jealous, you're a controlling insecure freak as far as I'm concerned.

Doesn't really make me jealous, to be honest, it just makes me feel that if she's parading around kissing other young 'wans, then she doesn't feel the same way about me as I would about her, hence she is dropped faster than 3 points at Anfield.

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#33 28-10-2008 12:42pm

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Jeebus wrote: »

Would you dump him ?

I'd take a dump on her.

BraziliaNZ wrote: »

Well that's different I suppose, because historically girlfriends aren't supposed to snog other blokes

Gotta love the use of the word 'historically'.

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#34 28-10-2008 12:47pm

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m@cc@ wrote: »

I'd take a dump on her.

You'd break up with her by performing the fabled "cleveland steamer"?

nnnniiiiiccccce :pac:!

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#35 28-10-2008 12:55pm

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Girls kissing other girls for a laugh isn't a problem at all. She'll get plagued for a 3some afterwards though.

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#36 28-10-2008 1:04pm

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i would not be posting on after hours, id be coaxing them back to the house. it defo s not cheating and is defo acceptible imo. i was convinced at the point - her extremely good-looking female friend.

why on earth would any man in this world be pissed off with his missus kissing a hot woman? baffling to be honest, its the stuff dreams are made of:D

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#37 28-10-2008 1:16pm

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Threesome, only logical outcome...

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