Tired of having sex with girlfriend

LegacyUser

Does anyone here have the same problem? We're going out about 2 years and I'm not sexually attracted to her therefore its tiresome havin sex with her.

Anyone here not sexually attracted to their partner, is that unusual?

LegacyUser

Why on earth are you going out with her still so? If you're simply not attracted to her, let her find someone else who is. You're only dragging out the misery for the pair of you otherwise.

Acoshla

Were you at some stage sexually attracted to her or have you always felt that way?

LegacyUser

I always felt that way

Wibbs

Then she's a friend you force yourself to have sex with. Let her go for gods sake so both of you can find people you do fancy. I mean why go out with her in the first place? Companionship? You're not 90. Trust me continuing this is a waste of both your time.

Webmonkey

Then you have more important issues than just "tired of having sex". - Surely being attracted to your girlfriend is an important characteristic of a relationship.

Princess Consuela Bananahammock

Agree. You sound scared of change, though. But change is nessecary.

Koushki

There's absolutely no point in you being with her. And it's quite mean on her aswel.

Carrigart Exile

Koushki wrote: »

There's absolutely no point in you being with her. And it's quite mean on her aswel.

This is very true, however, please be decent to her when you break up. Do not tell her its because you have never fancied her and sex with her was a chore.

Edgedinblue

Ugh! you goon, end it!

wasper

Unregistered wrote: »

I always felt that way

Thre reason you stayed with her is because it's still better than ****. Sorry to be blunt. But do you think this girl deserve the decieving? Let her go so she can find someone that appreciate her more.
BTW did you feel the same with other girls or just this girl particularily?

JDLK

Time to wrap it up I reckon

Gary ITR

Jesus... I went out with my last girlfriend for 3 years and could never keep my hands off her. I couldn't imagine a relationship any other way. #

You really do need to be physically attracted to your oh, otherwise she might as well just be one of the lads

LegacyUser

you never were attracted to her? but you are still going out with her. Are you just covering up a secret homosexuality?

LegacyUser

WEnt out with a girl for 7 months a couple of years back. Got on like a house on fire - had such great fun.

But, thing was, I never really fancied her.....couldnt understand how I really like this girl but phsically she wasn't my type.

We met on a blind date.

I couldn't keep it going even though it was the best fun i;ve had with a girl and I don't know if I'll click with someone like that again.... I couldn't get past it that I didn't fancy her physically.

I never wanted to hop her...... ever.

You need to end it.

Mr Benevolent

You really do need to be physically attracted to your oh, otherwise she might as well just be one of the lads

+11111111111111111111111111111111

Ne'er a truer statement. Physical attraction is a must-have. Get the hell out of there before you force yourself to marry her and have kids.

dlofnep

Relationships don't revolve 100% around getting jiggy in the bed.

But we have to ask - Why are you with her? Do you love her? Or is it just for comfort?

LegacyUser

Dear God you need to end this. The poor girl!!! You're basically friends then eh?

How can ya be with someone for so long & not be attracted to them. ?? Must be awful..