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could be fallin

  • 23-10-2008 6:57pm
    #1
    j0e
    Closed Accounts Posts: 496 ✭✭


    Basic story is me studying in america till May, sorta seeing a girl here, nothing major has happened but I think i'm developing some strong feelings for her. The problem is I go back after may to finish my studies in Ireland.
    I really didn't want this to happen, but I can't seem to help it. I pick staying in kissing and cuddling with her over getting easy sex from equally attractive girls. I don't know, Having this timeline is really preying on my mind already.
    Should I continue to what may be a relationship or should I just distance myself and try to block it out. Cause I know if it feels crap now its only going to get worse if in further down the line.
    I'm confused :S


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  • #2
    tbh
    Closed Accounts Posts: 15,914 ✭✭✭✭tbh


    j0e wrote: »
    Basic story is me studying in america till May, sorta seeing a girl here, nothing major has happened but I think i'm developing some strong feelings for her. The problem is I go back after may to finish my studies in Ireland.
    I really didn't want this to happen, but I can't seem to help it. I pick staying in kissing and cuddling with her over getting easy sex from equally attractive girls. I don't know, Having this timeline is really preying on my mind already.
    Should I continue to what may be a relationship or should I just distance myself and try to block it out. Cause I know if it feels crap now its only going to get worse if in further down the line.
    I'm confused :S

    I say go for it. What's the worse that can happen? It'll be painful for a while when you come home if you stop seeing each other, but 'tis better to have loved and lost, and all that. Just relax - this time of your life will be over before you know it, and it'll be too late to change your mind by then. Let the cards fall where they may. You never know, maybe - probably - it'll be lovely for a while, and then there will be a few tears, but maybe it'll be more than that, you know? Can't win if you don't play.


  • #3
    Red Alert
    Hosted Moderators Posts: 7,486 ✭✭✭Red Alert


    I think you'd be best to just enjoy it while you're there. She does know you're only there till May right?


  • #4
    Overheal
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 86,729 ✭✭✭✭Overheal


    May is 6 months away. And even if it was 6 days, it would be asinine not to go for it.


  • #5
    davyjose
    Closed Accounts Posts: 9,287 ✭✭✭davyjose


    Overheal wrote: »
    May is 6 months away. And even if it was 6 days, it would be asinine not to go for it.

    Totally agree - I've got news for you OP, EVERYTHING is Temporary. Enjoy it, and see where it leads. Next May might not have to be the end. But what's the point in making October definitely the end???


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