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Help me please

  • 21-10-2008 2:45am
    #1
    laithgh2002
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭


    Hey all I am new here and I wish that u can help me with my problem …

    my problem is that I was dating a girl I loved her so much then we broke up because of her mom … she made her get in relationship with another man ( to get married ) but she never do … but we broke up and I never talk to her since this except some times on the net just saying hi to each other … she broke up with this man that her mom want her to be with and we never talked either but her sis told me though , and she told me that her sister still love me so much … I tried to send her a msg but she never respond I talked with her in the net and asked her why she never respond she told me that she is free … I don’t know what’s going on with her but I think she just afraid of being in love again to not be hurting again … today I talked to her on the net either (couz I don’t have her phone number because she changed it ) I told her that I still love her and I know that u still love me … she told me that it was over , ad she don’t love anybody now … she told me that she hate all men … and refused to let me call her and then the net disconnect and we never continue our talk …

    I want her back I still love her and I know that she still love me I feel this from the way she respond and because her sister told me that day …

    How could I make her come back to me … I really really love her … or should I let her go and all my feelings that she love me still is wrong I don’t know what to do … plz help me

    p.s. sorry about my bad English … am not good at English. plzzz help


Comments

  • #2
    spurious
    Moderators, Category Moderators, Education Moderators Posts: 27,317 CMod ✭✭✭✭spurious


    You should let her go, she's not interested.
    Don't waste your time trying to win her back. If she was interested in you, there is nothing to stop her now, but she's not.
    I know it hurts, but it is true that there are lots of others out there.


  • #3
    shellyboo
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 5,883 ✭✭✭shellyboo


    Ok, so she's changed her number, won't talk to you online, has told you she doesn't want to be with you, and has asked you to leave her alone... you need to take the hint and leave this girl alone. You're one step away from harassing her. How much clearer does she have to make it?


  • #4
    Wibbs
    Moderators, Science, Health & Environment Moderators, Society & Culture Moderators Posts: 60,218 Mod ✭✭✭✭Wibbs


    Hard one for you, but you have to understand that she is gone. You say you love her, but your love is all on your side.

    If you do truly love her then you will stop thinking and acting about how you feel and think about how she feels.

    The fact is it doesn't matter how you feel, but how she does. For love to be real it requires two people. This situation doesn't.

    Forget about what her sister says. It's what she says and how she's acting with you that matters. Let her go. If it's meant to be it will be. Trying to force her to talk will make her think of you very badly.

    Rejoice in the awareness of feeling stupid, for that’s how you end up learning new things. If you’re not aware you’re stupid, you probably are.



  • #5
    laithgh2002
    Closed Accounts Posts: 2 ✭laithgh2002


    shellyboo wrote: »
    Ok, so she's changed her number, won't talk to you online, has told you she doesn't want to be with you, and has asked you to leave her alone... you need to take the hint and leave this girl alone. You're one step away from harassing her. How much clearer does she have to make it?


    she never changed her num ... her mom took it because she knew that am talkin with her on it and the man that she was able to marry with give her a new number ... and she talk to me online ... when am talkin to her she replied even if I say anything she always replay ... but the net dissconect and she didnt enter again ... she never asked me to leave her alone ... but she said that she dosent love anyone she hated all the males after me ... in my opinion she is afraid of being in love again because she know that her mom wont let her be with me if she found that I come bk to her ... anyway I took the hint and its over now to me ... I wont talk to her again ... thxx 4 the help all :)


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