strange one...

LegacyUser

My girlfriend bought a dildo a few weeks ago. one of those ones that does the in and out bits. Im not happy with that though. She keeps sayin that its ok and loads of girls with boyfriends use them but I dont really think that matters. Not for me anyway. To me its like she isnt happy with what she has and needs something that can pleasure her proper and for as long as necessary.


what are your thoughts?

Victor

There is no need to be jealous. Just experiment with it together.

tolosenc

Have you watched porn while you've been with her? Ever knocked one off?

It's a two way street, man.

evad_lhorg

obl wrote: »

Have you watched porn while you've been with her? Ever knocked one off?

It's a two way street, man.

hmmm I have had that porn argument with my girlfriend actually. How is that the same?

randylonghorn

weirded out 1 wrote: »

My girlfriend bought a dildo a few weeks ago. one of those ones that does the in and out bits. Im not happy with that though. She keeps sayin that its ok and loads of girls with boyfriends use them but I dont really think that matters. Not for me anyway. To me its like she isnt happy with what she has and needs something that can pleasure her proper and for as long as necessary.


what are your thoughts?

Not alone wouldn't have a problem with her getting one, but have bought them as presents in the past for a couple of different gfs ... and had loads of fun helping them explore getting maximum benefit from them!

(And yes, everything is in perfect working order, before anyone asks! :P )

Seriously, think of it not as a substitute but as an extra tool ( >_> ) in your arsenal ...

Recovered

Can't. Resist. Correcting...

randylonghorn wrote: »

Seriously, think of it not as a substitute but as an extra tool ( >_> ) in your arse ...

To answer OP though, don't be taking it so seriously, it's just for fun and added pleasure. Very few people can handle being all vanilla all the time and not everything is about you .

pretty-in-pink

weirded out 1 wrote: »

My girlfriend bought a dildo a few weeks ago. one of those ones that does the in and out bits. Im not happy with that though. She keeps sayin that its ok and loads of girls with boyfriends use them but I dont really think that matters. Not for me anyway. To me its like she isnt happy with what she has and needs something that can pleasure her proper and for as long as necessary.


what are your thoughts?

Honestly? Get Over It. Would you rather she got her jollies from another guy? Her getting herself off is nothing to do with you. At all. Period. Its healthy for women to play with themselves. Why not ask if you can join in? Its not a big deal at all. In fact many women compare notes on different types etc. Its just a bit of fun, same as you getting yourself off is. Your manhood is not being threatened here, sometimes girls just wanna have fun. Its faster then sex, and so long as it doesn't replace sex, I fail to see the problem.

Playing with yourself is playing with yourself be it using your hand or using technology. Be you male or female, its just a nice way to release stress. Simple as

There is absolutely nothing wrong with this situation tbh, but OP I do understand why you could take it a bit badly, she is right though, all girls have them they just won't tell you they do

Think about using it with her, it'll make you realise that it's just for fun and nothing more.

randylonghorn

Recovered wrote: »

Can't. Resist. Correcting...

No, thanks! >.<

Even I have my limits ... :pac:

hussey

Unless the O.P. has never knocked one off I suggest he grow up/get over it.

Overheal

Victor wrote: »

There is no need to be jealous. Just experiment with it together.

A dildo wont cook her dinner, write her a poem, kiss her softly,

Pub07

Overheal wrote: »

A dildo wont cook her dinner, write her a poem

Neither will a man.

kayos

Pub07 wrote: »

Neither will a man.

I object I cook in for my OH always!

As for the toy, dont worry its not there to replace you or make up for your shortfalls in the bedroom. Its there for when your not around and she fancys some pleasure and not importantly its there for the two of you to have fun with!

Wagon

weirded out 1 wrote: »

My girlfriend bought a dildo a few weeks ago. one of those ones that does the in and out bits. Im not happy with that though. She keeps sayin that its ok and loads of girls with boyfriends use them but I dont really think that matters. Not for me anyway. To me its like she isnt happy with what she has and needs something that can pleasure her proper and for as long as necessary.


what are your thoughts?

Nothing to worry about whatsoever

Wibbs

This I reckon is going nowhere fast in the direction of AH. Closed