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Boyfriend driving me nuts!

  • 13-10-2008 10:03pm
    #1
    LegacyUser
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 166,026 ✭✭✭✭


    agh ok I don't know where to start. basically me and my boyf have been together about a year and a half and just recently he's started getting really annoyed at me all the time on the flimsiest of reasons! These are all to do with me not being a good enough girlfriend such as not texting him back quickly enough or if i ask him a question twice i'm not paying attention to him or something! When i mean not quickly enough i mean outside half an hour. It's literally just started the last 3 weeks or so as we've had to move to seperate counties and he's just being insanely controlling! I love him so much and we get along so so so well and really don't want to break up with him but i can't live like this! Any time i try and bring it up with him he gets extremely defensive and closes in on himself so that's no help! I just don't know what to do :( sorry for the rambling post....


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  • #2
    speaktofrank
    Closed Accounts Posts: 595 ✭✭✭speaktofrank


    Have a chat to him. Tell him it can't go on like that. Basically what you have written here. He might be feeling unsecure as you have moved, so just reassure him that he's the one for you. Maybe that's all that it will need.


  • #3
    dudara
    Registered Users, Registered Users 2 Posts: 33,518 ✭✭✭✭dudara


    OK - he's not dealing well with the move to different countries. As he isn't there with you he wants to know that you're OK.

    Don't be worried - it is a sign that he cares. But you do need to talk to him and explain to him that he needs to relax a little bit. Just because you're in a different countries doesn't mean that you love him any less.


  • #4
    marti101
    Closed Accounts Posts: 954 ✭✭✭marti101


    angry_gal wrote: »
    agh ok I don't know where to start. basically me and my boyf have been together about a year and a half and just recently he's started getting really annoyed at me all the time on the flimsiest of reasons! These are all to do with me not being a good enough girlfriend such as not texting him back quickly enough or if i ask him a question twice i'm not paying attention to him or something! When i mean not quickly enough i mean outside half an hour. It's literally just started the last 3 weeks or so as we've had to move to seperate counties and he's just being insanely controlling! I love him so much and we get along so so so well and really don't want to break up with him but i can't live like this! Any time i try and bring it up with him he gets extremely defensive and closes in on himself so that's no help! I just don't know what to do :( sorry for the rambling post....
    Get out it will only get worse going off the deepend for no reason


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