Have to contact an ex

LegacyUser

a mutual friend of mine and my exes is heading over to dublin at the end of the month and asked me to let people (including my ex) know and to organise a night out.
now I split up with the ex about a year ago and since then have had sparse contact, the last time being about march when I ran into her in a pub and asked if we could be friends again as we where both seeing new people and she wasn't too keen on the idea, since then I think I've texted her twice, once was asking if she was heading to a friend of ours gig that night and once was to let her know I'd found some of her stuff in with mine. she never replied to either.
shes been going out with someone now since about Xmas apperntly so I understand her not wanting me about but I'm unsure as to what to do. I know our friend would love to see her but isn't really a good enough friend of hers to call her up without me there.

on one hand it has been now over a year since we split and I don't think theres any major feelings there on either part as we've both been in relationships since but considering she didn't reply to the last two texts I don't want to seem like I'm trying to intrude on her new life.
any suggestions?

Marksie

"*mutual friend* is heading over to dublin on *such and such a date*. HE asked me to let you know and that a group night out will be arranged. Will send you dates, time and location. regards OP"

littlebitdull

Marksie's is a good answer. But to be honest I dont see as its your problem that your friend wants to contact this other person.

She has made it very clear that she wants no contact from you.

I would simply tell your friend you cant help.

Wagon

Do what Marksie wrote and if she doesn't reply then feck it. Let your mate get in touch if they want to see them.

Chinafoot

Give the mutual friend your ex's contact details. If he/she is that keen to see her they can contact her themselves.